People who practice at home inevitably have to deal with all kinds of people in society, and we can't ask everyone to have the same beliefs, values, and behaviors as we do

People who practice at home inevitably have to deal with all kinds of people in society, we can't ask everyone to have the same beliefs, values, and behaviors as we do, and I think an effective way to avoid contradictions and conflicts is to start from the basic human nature to interact with people and communicate with people.

Behind the differences in religion, gender, occupation, social status, etc., everyone is a human being, they all want to be understood, they are cared for, they all want to be happy, they don't want to suffer.

Recognize this first, and on this basis, gradually expand the inner capacity, and slowly and sincerely develop a sense of intimacy with the people around you, willing to feel their happiness, sadness, loneliness, willing to understand, to help. This seems to me to be the basic qualities that a human being should possess.

We should first learn how to get along with people, and then talk about how to get along with outsiders. Without inner openness and compassion, we cannot break through our own limitations, and it is difficult to truly benefit sentient beings.

When I was young, I was also a jealous and hateful angry youth, and when I saw something unfair, I always wanted to draw my sword to help. But as I grew older and more experienced, as I was constantly whipped by reality, I learned to control my temper. However, at that time, self-control was only a trend of cultivation or pros and cons, and the heart was not calm, and it often needed to be vented in a different way.

Last year we experienced the epidemic, and the people of the whole country worked together to get through the difficulties. Looking back now, everything was too difficult.

At that time, our company was facing closure, the boss sold the property and paid the employees' wages, and everyone was moved to tears. At that time, no one knew what kind of form 2021 would be, and the boss, who also studied Buddhism, was compassionate in his heart, saying that he could not make it difficult for the employees who had followed him for many years to have no source of livelihood. Even when the company was completely discontinued, the boss still paid the basic salary to the employees and took the initiative to let everyone look for a job while looking for a job.

In 2021, our country took the lead in getting out of the predicament, which is gratifying, and our industry has also resumed work and production on a large scale. But many peers can't find experienced old employees, because they were all resigned last year, and now it is difficult for others to come back. Our company did not have such a problem, and quickly resumed work, because the old employees were all there, and they were grateful. The company is in full swing, orders are received softly, and employees work overtime spontaneously. This year can basically make up for last year's losses, which also belongs to the boss's good people have good rewards, and have jumped to become the leader of the industry.

Last year, my boss recommended "The Second Flower" to me, and the author is ShiaRongbo Khenpo. He used very beautiful language and made it easy to understand us to appreciate the great wisdom of the Buddha. He explained the Dharma so thoroughly, and combined it with the daily life of ordinary people, which made me less troublesome, opened my heart, and gave me a rare peace.

Here I also recommend the book "The Second Flower Blossom" to those who have a relationship, I hope that you and I can get strength and wisdom from it.

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