Two people together, have these 3 kinds of "feelings", is the most real love
Always believe that everyone who lives on this earth, at the age of love, hopes to meet someone they love very much, and that person happens to be in love with themselves.
But the reality is that not everyone can get what they want.
It's not that they are too demanding of each other, or that they don't know how to cherish it.
It is easy to love each other and difficult to get along, and it is easy to get together and difficult to stay together.
In reality, there are always some people who, once they fall in love with each other, will love regardless of it. Nothing else matters, when the hot love period is over, and feel that the other party's shortcomings are more than the advantages.
As a result, I began to wonder if the other party was worth paying for myself.
More hesitation, more ideas, more ideas, more variables, love to the end, one is not suitable, go their separate ways.
One wants to go, one does not stay, and in this way, a relationship comes to an end.
To pursue its roots is to love not deeply enough.
Two people together, have these "three" feelings, that is the truest, most stable love.
First, the sense of comfort
When two people are together, what they want is not a depressed general, but a relaxed and comfortable feeling.
With this feeling, you will feel that you love the right person.
With this feeling, you will feel that you are a happy person.
Ease, is two people in a lot of things, tacit understanding to bring just the right cooperation.
For example, you cook, he cooks, you sweep the floor, he washes the dishes, no one commands anyone, but tacit cooperation, driven by love, is a natural manifestation of the phenomenon that cannot help but be.
With this kind of fit performance, it is the most real love, the most comfortable state.
With people who are comfortable with each other, the whole person is relaxed and happy.
Because, we know each other's truest appearance.
Therefore, instead of pretending in front of each other, you can say what you want, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, no one will blame anyone, no one will laugh at anyone.
This is the best feeling in the world, the most intimate and harmonious relationship, the most comfortable love.
Second, long chat is not annoying, long time is not tired, is the most real emotion.
One day is not seen, such as three autumns, three days are not seen, standing restless.
Two people who really love each other, I wish I could spend every day with each other to talk about my parents.
You say a word, I say a word, slow talk and detailed talk, not tired, talk endlessly.
Like the sentence I saw the other day, being able to chat with people who are in love is more beautiful than eating any big meal, more precious than gold and silver.
Because chatting, not only talking about the long and the short, but also the dialogue of the heart, is the communication of the soul, is the bridge to the depth of feelings.
It is a blessing to be with people who can talk to each other.
Third, in the world of feelings, we want sincerity, not perfunctory.
Sincerity is the foundation of feelings and the cornerstone of love.
There is no sincere love, such as a house built on the beach by the sea, once the wind and rain strike, it collapses in an instant and becomes nothingness.
Therefore, good feelings have a foundation, and two people who truly love each other are connected by heart, heart to heart, and full of tacit understanding.
Even if there are some small misunderstandings or some small frictions, they will let all the unpleasantness go away because of trust and understanding and tolerance.
Two people who truly love each other will not argue endlessly because of some small things, but mainly understand, cherish, tolerate, and give in.
That kind of love can make feelings more flexible and make love more resilient.
At any time, two people will not let that gorgeous love fade away its original beauty because of one or two small things.
If there are the above three situations in your love, it means that you are all true lovers.
In the vast world, it is not easy to meet people who truly love each other, and when you meet, you must cherish it. If you lose it, you will never encounter it again.