#当你老了, what do you regret the most in your life # Wait until you are old and look at it.
Now that I am in my forties, I am fortunate that my parents are alive and have the ability to perform filial piety in front of my knees, my son is healthy, and my daughter is a teacher.
Looking back on the ups and downs of more than forty years, there is nothing to regret except regretting that I did not manage my marriage well.
When he first got married, he didn't know how to manage marriage, he always got along with his husband in a way that hurt each other, he was a stuffy gourd, he didn't like to talk, and he would only use actions to prove his care and apologies.
He would never apologize, let alone coax people, would only hug me hard, and then hug me until I was about to suffocate, and would not say a soft word!!
So I was even angrier! Every time he had a cold war with him, he didn't repent.
Until after having a daughter, once he went swimming on the weekend, did not come back all day, that day was catching up with my daughter after the vaccination high fever, I was busy to give my daughter to the clinic for infusion and return, only to find that it was dark and he had not returned, a little angry, more worried.
At that time, there was no mobile phone, and he could only stare at home like a needle felt, and waited until more than ten o'clock in the evening before he returned accompanied by two buddies.
In my memory, the moment he pushed open the door, like a car that suddenly added the accelerator, sneaked up to me, I didn't have time to stand up, I was hugged tightly by him, as if he was going to strangle me to death, for half a day without letting go.
"I love you, I really love you."
"What a nerve!" After saying that he sent a loose hand, but still did not let go of me, I turned my head to look at his two buddies who followed, but inadvertently rubbed the cold on his face, he cried...
After breaking free of him, his buddy Ali lian zhu cannon said a lot of things -
It turned out that the three of them had agreed to go swimming this weekend at Xiangtan near Juyongguan, a small lake at the foot of the Great Wall, with no one to take care of it and no protective measures.
Office workers also have no money, can't afford to go to the swimming pool for a fee, and they like to swim very much, and many people who like to swim run to swim in the wild.
Originally, the brothers planned to eat something at the small restaurant by the pond at noon and come back, but before the dishes came up, they heard people outside shouting for help!
The three of them scrambled out of the way for a pair and a half, and they all jumped down without taking off their clothes!
As a result, I caught the man who fell into the water, but I couldn't drag it up to the shore, the three big guys were very confused, and finally my lover sneaked to the man's feet, only to find that he was wearing a pair of military leather boots, and the shoelaces were hanging on something, that thing was iron, and my lover went down three times in a row to take off the shoe...
The man was rescued, but my lover fainted when he swam to the shore...
"We just came back from the hospital, the tycoon is fine, just a little low blood sugar, sister-in-law, you don't blame the tycoon (the nickname the buddy gave him) ah"
I was gagged for a moment, this stuffy gourd... I also found two helpers to explain to me.
Once hated him for "arguing and not finding an opponent"; once depressed that he married a mute; once thought he had no heart...
It turned out that his heart and his love could only be expressed in action.
At that moment, I was relieved, life is a long road, sweet words are important, but it is more important to accompany you silently.
