The first time I met "Lan Yin Fu Guo" was in the watching the series "Ruyi Zhuan", the emperor went to Yi Kun Palace to invite Ruyi to visit Mulan, and when he was parting, Ruyi said to the emperor: "Emperor, do you know the words of Lan Yin Fu Guo? When I read it when I was young, I only felt sorry, but now I understand that flowers bloom and fall from time to time. Later, the eunuch saw the brush character "Lan Yin Fu Guo" written by the emperor on the copy, so he asked the emperor what "Lan Yin Fu Guo" meant, and the emperor told the eunuch in a trance that "Lan Yin Fu Guo" referred to the marriage between men and women, which was beautiful at the beginning and eventually separated. Later, when I saw the picture of Ruyi cutting off and burning the portrait of himself and the emperor, I deeply felt that a person's heart was dead, and he did not leave a single thought! Perhaps this is the best interpretation of "mourning is better than heart death", sorry for Ruyi's deep love was finally let down, thinking about how he would treat it if he encountered such a thing? At that time, my mood for Ruyi's situation was difficult to calm down for a long time, and it was difficult to calm down.
Nowadays, he can't escape the ending of "Lan Yin FuGuo", and he has also become the protagonist of a similar experience with Ruyi, and the worries of that year have become a reality. A memorable day, January 28, 2022, went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for a divorce certificate, and finally got out of the sea of suffering, because I know that the real decency of a woman is to know how to cherish, and I am willing to let go, not to look back, and not to settle.
Looking back on twenty-five years of married life, I have been living in the calculations and deceptions of others, have no money and no care, and help him solve a bunch of rotten things in the family: take the money from his father to buy a dowry and send two sisters-in-law to pay tuition until they complete their studies; pay for the family to build a building; take out money to save the life of the uncle who is sick; the uncle who dies of illness and bears the living expenses of the uncle's children every month...
The uncle just died, he found that his backyard had long been on fire, others had already outsourced the second milk, and borrowed a huge loan of 300,000 yuan from the bank behind his back, and also deceived others that it was used for his daughter's tuition and family. In order to fly with the second grandmother as soon as possible, he took me to court and filed for divorce. As a law enforcer, he thought that he lived in the second grandmother's house more than ten kilometers away from home, doing a seamless job, not driving, and I could not find his traces without male friends. Unexpectedly, I paid a high price to ask a private investigator to follow me and got evidence of his long-term cohabitation. At that time, my daughter happened to be in her third year of high school, and for the sake of her daughter's studies and future, she endured humiliation and burden, pretended not to know, and let him stay at night and denigrate me in front of outsiders.
Now, my daughter has been admitted to the national orientation student, and in the future, as soon as she graduates, she will become a teacher in the compilation, and she should also be able to comfort me for the humiliation I have suffered in the past three years! For the sake of her daughter's future life, she did not choose to denounce the dog man and woman, did not want to make everyone known, lost face, let others let go of themselves, looked at him for three or five years, and believed that God had its own arrangements.
Today, I went through the divorce procedures with him, although he was only willing to compensate 80,000 yuan, but he still counted, for the sake of his daughter's future to marry a good family, he did not want to make things bigger, make people laugh, and become the topic of others after dinner. Even if he wins the world, what if he calculates his life! The dirty life he could not erase, the rotten man who was not even worthy of the beast, why should he entangle and waste his youth. As Yi said to the emperor, "Flowers blossom and fall from time to time." Why bother, it's not worth it! Good and evil will be rewarded in the end, and there is no need to worry too much!