Pay attention to the sensitive period of order, so as not to adversely affect the child's intellectual development and future social life, when I went downstairs, I saw Grandma Zhao beating the child, and I thought it was a rainy day

Pay attention to the sensitive period of order, so as not to adversely affect the child's intellectual development and later social life

When I went downstairs, I saw Grandma Zhao beating the child, I thought it was a rainy day, I knew it was because her 2-year-old grandson Xiaolin Lin was throwing a tantrum, Grandma Zhao coaxed for half a day and did not work, so she had to get started.

I know that children don't lose their temper at will, there must be some need that hasn't been met. I advised Grandma Zhao to calm down first and tell me what was going on.

It turned out that from more than 1 month ago, every time downstairs Xiaolin Lin rushed to press the elevator, the previous performance was not obvious, occasionally did not rush, the temper was slightly coaxed, did not expect to become more intense today, not to go upstairs to press once again before willing to give up, Grandma Zhao could not hold it, coaxed badly, the sweat of the emergency came down, no way, had to use the killer, beat the little grandson.

Grandma Zhao complained as she spoke, "Now it is more and more difficult for children to serve, and now everything in the family has to be decided by this stinky boy." Once I saw that his toys were dirty, I washed and hung them on the balcony, which was terrible, crying and making trouble at home, not to let me put his toys back, but also exactly the same as before, I am this age, I can't even remember what I just ate, that remember where to put that big pile of toys, oops! A lot of these things, the thought of it makes my liver hurt. ”

I listened to some crying and laughing, the child is in the order sensitive period, but unfortunately the parents are not clear, while hitting the child while they still feel wronged.

The so-called order sensitive period is that when the child is more than 1 or 2 years old, he begins to pay attention to the order in life. The specific performance is that it is necessary to repeat the fixed logic, fixed rules, fixed order, such as toys must be placed in a fixed position, eat must sit on the first stool, go out must be their own elevator and other behaviors, are typical manifestations of the order sensitive period.

The sensitive period of order is not the child's tantrums, but his brain has developed to this stage, and is consolidating the brain's neural networks through seemingly meaningless behaviors, which are a basic framework for him to form organizational, analytical, inductive deduction, and other abilities in the future, and will also lay the foundation for the establishment of his moral consciousness. If the sensitive period of order is interrupted, it will have a negative impact on the child's intellectual development and later social life.

Grandma Zhao listened to what I said, her face turned white with fright, and I quickly persuaded her: Don't worry, Xiaolin Lin is just two years old, the sensitive period of order has just started, and everything is still too late. In the future, what he wants to do himself, you will try to cooperate as much as possible under the condition of ensuring safety, and the better he plays now, the more you will worry about it in the future.

Grandma Zhao listened to my words, did not care to say anything more, hugged the child, and trotted to take the good grandson to press the elevator.

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