I was chatting with him that day, and I asked him why are you working so hard?
He said what else could he do, to make money.
I say why do you make so much money?
He said it was for pleasure.
I said that you are making a lot of money now, see how you live so poor? Are you happy?
He said happy.
When I said you didn't have any money, you often wanted to go to the next restaurant, and now you want to eat shimizu noodles at home, are you happy?
He said that making money is not about having to get something, but about having choices, which is freedom.
Who is he?
A friend of mine, a rising star in the past two years.
In the past two years, I have witnessed his growth and harvest, which is a qualitative leap.
When we first met, we didn't have any money, what to lose, and we had a famine, we bragged about the future at night, talked about excitement, and watched the car on our mobile phones for one night. He said that he would have money in the future, and he really wanted to watch TV at home every day and eat a big meal.
Now, he is on the rise, driving a luxury car outside, but eating shimizu noodles at home every day.
I said you did it, but why did you get poorer and poorer?
He said because he put it down.
In the past, I always wanted to make money later, watchING TV at home every day, going out every day, I said you can not work now, the income can still satisfy you, why is it busier than before? He said it was still happier.
I remembered a story that a friend had told me. Two beggars brag together, and one of the beggars asks the other beggar, if you have money in the future, what are you going to do? Another beggar said, "If I have money in the future, I will change to a golden bowl and ask for food."
When there is no money, we are all at the bottom of the well, thinking that if we have money, we will do whatever we want. In fact, after I did it, I found that it was completely different from what I had thought before. At that time, it was all obscenity, and everything I thought was wrong.
The rich are generous and stingy, and the poor are cautious and generous. Friends smoke, and he likes to smoke Hemen. In the past, when there was no money, for the sake of face, I did not smoke Hemen, but I had to smoke Huazi. He said he was trying to make money for what? It is to be yourself, you can smoke whatever you want, you don't have to buy that huazi for the sake of face.
He said that only if you have something, you are qualified to say whether you want it or not. After experiencing it, it will be put down. Someone raised the bar with me, saying that you worked so hard, made some money, and my life is similar, I also eat noodles at home, he said I have a choice, eat noodles because it is convenient, tomorrow do not want to eat, you can go to dinner at any time. And you don't have a choice.
Every friend who relies on his own efforts and gains achievements is worth learning from us. His words are also worth savoring, why work hard?
It's all about calmness and freedom.
The days are getting easier
