Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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The ex is the past that one person dares not touch, and it is a grenade that two people dare not light.
Everyone has experienced a failed emotional experience. Among them, many people have retained the position and shadow of their predecessors in their hearts after they have separated.
In the relationship, people believe in the argument that "the ex should be as silent as death". As everyone knows, all the "visits" of the predecessors are invited by the parties themselves!
The parties, the exs who waved their hands, some of them formed in real life, some in a corner of their hearts, can not be replaced by anyone...
Why would the person "invite" his ex with a wave of his hand?
The ex is the person who regrets, loves and stabs himself most deeply in the past!
When people are in the present life, accidentally colliding with the past, the ex will naturally come! With the beauty or hurtful appearance of ta or the sense of distance that is out of reach... Ex, that's it!
Whether it is the interaction in real life or the inseparability in the heart, it can make the parties' hearts flood with unpredictable or ripples or turbulent waves.
There is a saying that people who live in the past will never have the present.
Come to think of it, no one doesn't understand such a truth! But for the matter of missing the ex, it is often because of the present that the parties concerned are nostalgic for the past.
It's just that when missing an ex, the psychology of men and women is different after all! Too many people, resentful of the other half of the ex can not be as quiet as dead, have to come out to "make trouble".
However, when people deeply attack the psychology of men and women, you will find that the visit of the "ex" has always been the responsibility of the parties themselves.
So, what are men and women, missing their exs, each for? After reading the details, it is necessary not to say that this is the "truth":
First: Women miss their exs
In relationships, the vast majority of women are always emotionally present.
Who she falls in love with will be a decision to choose the rest of her life in an instant! Yes, sensibility determines women's "love brain", doomed to be prone to gain and loss in their feelings because of excessive expectations for happiness.
Some women, love once hurt, hurt once remember the ex once! It's just that there are two kinds of exs that women think of, and the second is what she misses the most:
1: The one who hurt her most deeply
Memorable perceptions, one is the pain that goes deep into the bone marrow, and the other is the excitement of prying the arteries!
In the feelings of men and women, often the perception of happiness is easy to be forgotten, and the pain that goes deep into the bone marrow will always stagnate in the heart.
The deeper the love, the deeper the wound, the deeper the wound, the more true it is remembered!
Whenever the life in front of you and the people in front of you make a little wind and grass, the woman becomes sensitive and even flustered, and the pain of the past immediately climbs into the heart and lingers!
Such a painful experience, if it is not a woman with good self-healing ability, will probably be "entangled" for the rest of her life in the past.
2: Someone who is better to her than the person in the moment
There is no regret medicine in the world, and there is no chance to start again! Some people miss it for a lifetime, but those who miss it are usually remembered in the bad situation of the moment!
Yes, who can miss pain while rejoicing?
In the relationship between men and women, a woman generally does not compare the past with the person in front of her, she can only suddenly think of the good of the past when she is extremely desperate and sad in the present.
Many times, the current man does not know how "bad" he is doing, he only knows that the more a woman is a senior ex, the more he encounters his reverse scales. In this kind of torture and being tortured, women will wash their faces with tears all day long, while remembering their predecessors, they will confess and confess their lives after wiping themselves.
Women who have experienced being deeply hurt by men are mostly fragile and sensitive, and it is generally difficult to harvest happiness in future feelings!
A woman who has experienced being particularly good to herself will only decide whether she is happy or not in the moment to decide whether she is obsessed with her ex.
Many people say that women have no love, and whoever is good to her will go with whom! This sentence is not false at all! In fact, women who are happy at the moment generally don't think of their ex!
The worse the moment, the more she misses her ex!
Second: Men miss their exs
In the relationship, what kind of woman will men be more attentive to?
From the perspective of human nature, it is not difficult to find that people are always willing to cherish things that are not easy to get! This is the desire to conquer and bring people a sense of accomplishment. When people get a sense of accomplishment by doing their best, their hearts are happy!
At the same time, they will also be deeply happy and cherish their "booty".
Among the two sexes, men's desire to conquer in the face of feelings is far greater than that of women. The more unconquerable the woman, the more the man's obsession. Therefore, women generally use "reservedness" to pressure men when they are pursued.
However, the pseudo-reserved woman adds to her feelings and is accustomed to dependence and habit, and has faded all disguises, and has only lost herself in love. Men, they feel "boring". But it doesn't mean such an ex, he won't think about it again.
The exes that can remind men of are probably the following:
1: After falling in love, if a man goes from passion to indifference to women, let women suffer from loss and loss in countless days of loss and humble pandering, usher in a desperate woman, and leave without looking back.
At this time, the man is not used to it because there was once a woman who "obeyed" him, and suddenly pulled away from him. Because, a man who is too "arrogant" never thinks that a woman without an ego will withdraw from his world. He, unwillingly!
As a "dragging arrogant" man, how can someone be allowed to "dump" himself?
2: Before and after establishing a relationship, it has always been a woman whose man cannot satisfy his appetite. Although such a woman is very hateful, she is accustomed to using some tricks to make men "bow down".
But later, the woman he was trying so hard to coax and hold told him that "we are not suitable" or broke off the relationship with each other for other reasonable reasons! Men, on the other hand, were devastated and even once self-doubted.
However, he is powerless to change everything, and can only obey the arrangement of "fate".
Yes, whether it is too humble or has a distinct personality, in short, the exs that men miss are mostly women who actively leave him.
In the relationship, the man's love for the woman is the joy of the first sight, and the long-term insatiable treatment of the woman is caught in the various "bureaus" set by the woman. When love and unlove and desire to conquer are contested, love and unlove are ultimately lost.
When they hear that the ex has a "latecomer", men will be very sad inside. The woman I have got seems to be "his" all her life, and others are not allowed to touch!
Therefore, when the former "turned back" to find a man, men will mostly maintain a close and moderate relationship with the person in front of them and the ex behind their backs.
Because, he wants to let the ex know that he is the one who needs the ex! And I myself, in the need, will be complacent and have a small achievement!
Men miss their predecessors, not necessarily still in love, not necessarily not in love with the people in front of him, but his "desire to conquer" has not been reduced. If it weren't for the fact that his predecessor had injured him to the skin, he would certainly not have completely forgotten the person who took the initiative to withdraw from his world.
After deeply opening up the different psychology of men and women who miss their predecessors, it is not difficult for us to find that in fact, the "ghosts of all predecessors" are not the fault of "predecessors", but the desire and responsibility of the men and women concerned for the current life!
However, both men and women should know how to live well in the present. People in the past, good or bad, are the past. It is foolish to influence people in the present with the past!
For women, if the moment is not good, instead of crazy missing the ex, it is better to run the moment well, and the people who deserve it will continue to stay together, and the people who are not worth it will stop the loss in time!
As for the people of the past, it has always been a fate. True fate will meet, hug, and stay with you for the rest of your life!
For men, no matter how much the person who once made you have a "desire to protect" or a "desire to conquer possess", it is not half as good as the person in front of you. At any time, know how to cherish to deserve to have, do not wait until you lose it to regret it!
I hope that all the men and women in love in the world will go all out when they fall in love, rub shoulders and say goodbye after freely! May you spend the rest of your life with all the good!
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