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Loving someone without responding, instead of begging for love, it is better to walk away proudly.
True love is not about giving it all, but about making yourself a better person.
In love, the party who cares most often loses the most in the end. Finding someone who will make you happy for a lifetime is the goal of love.
Whether a person really loves you, in fact, what he says and does with what he says, you can feel it.
If a person appears in the following three manifestations, it shows that he does not care about you, and your original position in his heart may have been replaced by another person, and the other party may have transferred his affection!
First, the mobile phone does not leave the body
In "The Shadow Thief", it is said that "I am most sad that you are with me, but you seem so lonely!" ”
The phone can tell that he loves you, and it can also be seen that he doesn't love you.
People who love you will not care about their mobile phones in front of you, and even often can't find their own mobile phones, and people who don't love you, in front of you, don't care about you at all, only their own mobile phones in their eyes.
Juanzi and her boyfriend Lin Ping have been together for almost two years, the two people's relationship has always been very good, Lin Ping will give her a sense of security, mobile phone can be seen at any time, from the two people together to almost two months ago.
Only two months ago, Lin Ping began to use various excuses to prevent Juanzi from looking at his mobile phone.
"My phone is out of battery"
"You use your own, I'm at work"
"Why don't you use your own mobile phone, every day you think about using my mobile phone"
"I'm playing games, don't bother me"
From the initial anytime and anywhere to show themselves, now a glance is not willing to show themselves, it is even more impossible to touch, such a change is inevitable to make people think more.
After Juanzi said it, Lin Ping only said that Juanzi was too sensitive to do anything for a day, only knew how to think wildly, and asked her to find something to do.
When a man loves you enough and trusts you enough, he won't have any reservations about you, and he will take every opportunity to make you know yourself better.
He will not be afraid to reveal everything to you, he will be willing to share his most private things with you, and he will not worry about his careful thinking being guessed by you.
When you want to look at his mobile phone, you will find that he will give it to you without hesitation, the mobile phone does not have any password, he will not be nervous and hesitant in the process of watching, and will joke with you that he is a strict wife.
Only when he has done something sorry for you and is weak in his heart, he will not be willing to show you his mobile phone, and if you insist on watching, he will also beat a rake and say that you do not trust yourself.
In a relationship between the sexes, if a person is always hiding and has reservations about you, he must have two hearts.
Second, disappear from time to time
Juanzi has always suspected that there is something wrong with her boyfriend's mobile phone, and she wants to find a chance to sneak a look.
But recently she found that her boyfriend is always busy and always has no time to spend with herself.
When I want him to go shopping with him, he says that he is very busy at work and his tone is very impatient, but he sounds like drinking in a bar;
When you want him to accompany him on a long-lost date, he always sends a message and does not reply, does not answer the phone, and after a long time he sends a sentence of "just busy" perfunctory himself;
When I want him to rest at home on the weekend and relax, I always find an excuse to sneak out, my friend moves to help him, which friend, I go together? You don't know, what are you going to join in the fun? Then came back very late in the evening and wouldn't explain anything.
That night, Juanzi secretly looked at Lin Ping's mobile phone while he was asleep, only to find that the person next to his pillow had already changed his mind.
Today is not to help a friend move, but to go to the girl to accompany her, the two people stay together for a day, but they refuse to give themselves a moment of time.
A person who loves you won't make you worry and be afraid, won't make you more and more insecure.
He will tell you that he loves you through his own actions bit by bit, so that you will no longer suffer from gains and losses, and you will no longer be lonely and afraid.
And a person who already has two hearts in his heart will not care about your thoughts and feelings, and your feelings are extremely cheap and dispensable in his opinion.
Third, start to pay attention to appearance and dislike you
Juanzi then remembered that her boyfriend recently cared a lot about his appearance, and he who had not trimmed before had now become not only fond of buying clothes for himself, but also had to pack up for a long time before going out.
He asked him who he saw who paid so much attention, and he also used the excuse that his colleagues in the company always hated him, saying that he was too sloppy, so he wanted to change it.
Combined with the chat history photos she saw and the transfers, she was sure that her boyfriend had someone out there.
Obviously, I didn't trim the edges before, but now I pay great attention to appearance, and it turns out that it is because I have others, so I will care about my own image.
Afraid that he would find out, so he would not show himself his mobile phone, worried that he would find his ugly things.
Often disappeared to say that he was busy with work, said that he did not have time, said that he was too tired to accompany himself, and originally went with the woman.
Juanzi couldn't help it, and Lin Ping had a big fight, Lin Ping also said that Juanzi didn't clean up after herself, a woman was not like a woman, not gentle and cute at all.
The reason why she didn't mention the breakup was that she didn't want to make her sad.
But the truth is that his own job is unstable, the salary is not high, and he needs Juanzi's salary to support the woman and let the woman.
In the world of feelings, the most taboo thing is not to love, but also pretend to be a victim, and shape yourself into a great image to continue to hurt others.
If a person loves you or not, you know best, if you really feel that he is different from before, his attitude towards you has become perfunctory, he is not attentive to you, and he is not willing to spend time on you, he may have someone else in his heart.
Instead of staying by his side and letting him continue to hurt himself, it is better to leave this scumbag/scumbag as soon as possible and find his own true happiness.
Above all, encourage!
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