Master Yanshan: Stay away from the pessimistic thinking of life

Sometimes, the faith of life will be tired in time, the power of life will be buried in the time of life, and those who were once enthusiastic and heroic, those who were once enthusiastic and sincere, will become a kind of confusion, loss, disappearance or exhaustion in time. What is left to one's inner feelings a little sadness, pessimism or a kind of closed and desolate, what is this psychological situation? It's called pessimistic thinking.

Sometimes I am trying to do one thing, and some things are really very hard, but the subsequent results are not the results I want, or even the harvest is small, not satisfactory.

Is the so-called effort for later results? Of course, it can also be said, but what is more is more of a process of presentation of effort, the expression of effort, and there is no need to have too many goals, demands and heights for future results.

Passing is passing, a good pass, a hard work of creation, a happy presentation, the courage to bear, for the past of life, their own life to pay their own bills.

The joys and sorrows of life, the ups and downs of the world, the cold and warm of human feelings, the cold and cold of the world, these are the common things of life, the ordinary scenery, not because of the change of age, or the change of the world, it is a kind of nature, it needs you to respect, you need to understand, you need to be able to be objective and rational.

For example, when people reach middle age, people are more confused and wandering, stressed and sentimental. What is it after middle age, and what will you face when the sun sets? Is that even more desolate than middle age?

Master Hongyi once said, "'Knowing the half-drop'", when you are thirty to forty years old, you are facing the pressure of life, the pressure of family, the pressure of self-worth, the pressure of your future positioning, and when you are fifty to sixty years old, is it a kind of suffering?

Flowers fall and blossom, there is a flower fall in front of the flower before the flower blooms, the flowers bloom in this natural flow, gathered and scattered, coming and going, there are many good friends walking and walking, there are many confidants and relatives who walk away, and there are some former young confidants, life friends who walk and walk no longer contact.

Knowing that the friendship is half scattered, looking back, is there some inexplicable sentimentality and desolation? If you are pessimistic, it is not only a handful of tears to bring this cup of past clouds, not just a handful of tears, but pain through the heart.

In the face of the gathering and dispersion of life and the ups and downs of fate, we need a stronger support wisdom, a stronger bravery of life, and a more creative self-presentation, rather than tears rippled in the story of life, screaming bitterness, blue nose and swollen face, and dazed.

To say that tears can solve the problem, then crying is, only later found out that tears can not solve the problem, bravery can; tears can not solve the problem, frank can; tears can not solve the problem, open-minded can.

You need a kind of strength, you need to live more bravely, not to lose to the flow of stories around you, the changes of the years, the wrong of things and the vastness of the years.