Yuanyuan and Zhang Peng were originally a loving couple, but the trivialities after marriage slowly consumed their passion.
Exhausted their love for each other.
Because of the outbreak of contradictions, their love for each other has become more and more casual.
Sometimes even when two people lie in the same bed, they don't have a common language.
In the past, they would always express their love for each other, but now they talk less and less to each other, and even on their wedding anniversaries, they have not even eaten a meal together.
Not long ago, Yuanyuan bought a new bag, originally planned to share life with her husband, but before Yuanyuan could speak, her husband said: "Are you bothered in the end?" ”
After that, Yuanyuan never expressed any emotion to her husband.
In fact, in real life, such couples are not in the minority, sometimes in the face of feelings, each of us will have some helplessness, when everything has become a habit, there will be no longer a heartbeat between you.
Love often can't escape such a dead cycle, but in the world of feelings, we must learn to face love correctly in order to harvest happiness and beauty.
Because no matter who you are with, there will be contradictions and disputes, the key is how to solve, Yuanyuan and Zhang Peng actually do not have too many contradictions, the most fundamental reason is only because of the lack of communication and communication, in the world of feelings, two people have contradictions and conflicts is a normal thing, but as long as you learn to solve correctly, the problem can be resolved.
In this life, there is always a person who is your destiny, in the world of feelings, one thing drops one thing, and when you really meet a person who is willing to bow his head for him, it proves that your love has come.
Good love also needs the right management, so when you are facing the love robbery of love, how should you deal with it? Let's take a look.
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Academic society weakness
When facing the lover, we should not say the opposite coldly, because the lovers also need to warm each other with sincerity.
When we have the ability to love, we must also learn to give generously, because your efforts can be exchanged for the sincerity of the other party.
In the relationship, there are many people with hard mouths, and if they lose the person they love deeply because of a momentary impulse, in the end, they will not be worth the loss.
In many cases, people tend to judge the depth of love through the pain after loss, but in fact, such a practice is stupid, and many times some people are separated not because they do not love, but because they use their own cold violence to force away the person who loves you.
The racquet effect: When quarrelling, why do you quarrel more and more fiercely?
As the name suggests, when you shoot the ball hard, the more pressure the sphere is subjected to, the higher it bounces.
In the quarrel, you attack each other without stopping, so that the pressure on the person becomes greater, and the greater the potential; on the other hand, if one of the parties proposes to be calm in the middle, it is equivalent to him giving up the act of continuing to "shoot the ball" hard, and the result will be much better.
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In fact, many times, we obviously love each other, but the heart is getting farther and farther away, and the most fundamental reason why two people will be separated is because they do not understand communication.
From the original enthusiasm like fire, to the current slowly flat, in fact, all this is time at work.
Two people together, there is always a person to accept defeat, there is always a person to bow their heads, because the happiness in the plain is beautiful, when you know how to show weakness to each other, the emotional problem will not be worsened, and the two people can get along better.
When the two of you have endless topics to talk about, it can only mean that the two of you are still very strange, but if the communication between the two of you begins to fade, that is, the beginning of familiarity, so I hope that when you can love, you can cherish the person around you, and don't hurt each other because of a momentary willfulness.
In each of our hearts, there may be a person who we can't forget, and sometimes those who lie on the blacklist may also be deeply loved by us.
There are too many people you have met in your life, but there are not many people who can really enter your life, some people appear just to tell you that you are really deceitful, and some people appear to bring you peace of mind and companionship.
In the world of feelings, each of us likes to be strong, and sometimes we are not able to correctly distinguish love.
But only in the life of feelings, you can afford to put it down, you can find happiness.
Feelings are very complicated, but also can not be encountered, to be able to meet the right person is a kind of luck, if you meet someone unladylike, in the end it will only make you hurt.
In real life, the person who loves you will not let you be hurt, let alone leave you, if a person's love for you is hurtful, it means that he is not worth cherishing.
I hope that everyone can polish their eyes on the road of feelings, do not lose themselves because of one person, and do not change themselves unconditionally because of the other party, because your efforts are worth it for the people who love you, but for a person who does not love you, it is just your own willingness.
On the road of feelings, we must strive to pursue the good, not all people are worthy of your respect, meet those who treat you sincerely, your efforts will become meaningful.
In this life, there is always a person who is your destiny, in the face of the emotions of the past, we have loved it, and after the fact, do not have too much entanglement, get together and disperse, stop loss in time, and also the best respect for each other.
As long as you have truly loved, you will not regret losing, but when you love, don't hurt each other because of a momentary impulse.