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Reader's Letter:
Muzi Lee:
I am still a college student, and my girlfriend has a small shop in front of our school and does a milk tea business. Because I often go to her shop to buy milk tea, we are also familiar with each other.
In today's world, it's normal for young people to leave a contact between them.
Unexpectedly, more than ten days after she asked for my contact information, she confessed to me.
She's pretty, and she's actively pursuing me, and I feel like I can try to get along.
Two things I'm more mindful of: 1) she's 3 years older than me; and 2) she only has Chinese first.
At that time, I felt that after graduating from college anyway, we might not be able to get married, so we should learn from her love experience.
What I didn't expect was that on the third day of our relationship, she asked me to move into her rental house and live with her.
I readily agreed.
Embarrassingly, after a week of living together, she dumped me fiercely, and her reason for breaking up: we are not suitable.
At that time, when I moved out of the dormitory, I was also very high-profile.
After breaking up with my girlfriend, I felt particularly faceless.
Now, more than a year has passed since this incident, and I still haven't been able to get out of the shadow of lost love.
I even feel that I have a psychological problem now, because I am now reluctant to talk to girls and feel that the girls around me are very disgusting, except for my mother and my female relatives.
Muzi Li edited the following words:
After the breakup, excessive sadness, common reasons: in this relationship to pay too much, not willing to pay their own efforts to the water; too much to look up to themselves, feel that being dumped this kind of thing should not happen to themselves.
In this case, some mentally immature people will do something stupid or extreme.
The aftermath of your lost love: Punish yourself with the mistakes of others and completely deny the women around you except your loved ones.
Jump out of the loss of your own weaving: Your ex-girlfriend can only represent some girls, not all girls.
Break up, for sure, for a reason:
1) When she first confessed to you, she must have liked your appearance;
2) She broke up with you or thought you were a bit "childish".
You need to be mentally prepared: in the future, you may experience multiple love losses.
Regarding the loss of love, you should have the mentality: it is all in advance for you to meet the girl who is suitable for marriage in the future.
In fact, at the beginning of this relationship, don't you also think: after graduation, you may not be able to continue to be together, and you should practice your hands.
Advice for you:
Admit your ordinariness, and this matter will slowly be released.