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Liu Xuezhou, a boy looking for relatives, why is the experience of Sun Zhuo very different: the disaster caused by different family education

author:Draft Parenting ·
Different parents, children who create different children, have different life experiences.

In the early hours of yesterday morning, Liu Xuezhou, a boy looking for relatives, left us forever after leaving a long article.

Liu Xuezhou, a boy looking for relatives, why is the experience of Sun Zhuo very different: the disaster caused by different family education

In the long article, he recounted his own growth experience, the experience of finding relatives, and the break with his biological parents after the successful search for relatives.

Liu Xuezhou claimed that he had learned from his biological father that because of the difficulties of his family in the past, he could not afford to pay the bride price, and let others take him away after collecting 6,000 yuan.

I believe that such a result is the last thing everyone wants to see, before Sun Haiyang and Peng Gaofeng worked hard to find the missing children, but also let us feel the warmth of family affection.

But Liu Xuezhou's parents can abandon their own flesh and blood because of lack of money, and because their children seek help from themselves, they can blacken their children.

Liu Xuezhou, a boy looking for relatives, why is the experience of Sun Zhuo very different: the disaster caused by different family education

In fact, Liu Xuezhou's tragedy is inextricably linked to his original family. Because the school could not live during the winter vacation, Liu Xuezhou asked his biological parents if they could provide accommodation, but they were blocked.

Liu Xuezhou is 15 years old this year, from childhood to live with his grandmother, the old man for Liu Xuezhou is more than enough and insufficient, which also led to him did not go to high school, but chose a local secondary school to study kindergarten teachers.

Although he could not go to high school for various reasons, Liu Xuezhou was very eager to learn, hoping that he could change his fate through learning.

Liu Xuezhou, a boy looking for relatives, why is the experience of Sun Zhuo very different: the disaster caused by different family education

Not long ago, after Liu Xuezhou successfully found his biological parents, he did not complain about their "abandonment" and still expressed his dependence on them.

Because his adoptive parents' residence was in tatters, Liu Xuezhou hoped that his biological parents could rent a house for him, even if it was smaller, he could let go of a bed and fit his thin body.

However, this small proposal was still rejected by his parents, and at the same time, the relationship with his parents also dropped to a freezing point, and Liu Xuezhou's young soul had to bear this lost and regained affection alone.

Liu Xuezhou, a boy looking for relatives, why is the experience of Sun Zhuo very different: the disaster caused by different family education

Speaking of which, I just want to say that not all parents are Sun Haiyang, and Sun Zhuo's experience is the opposite of Liu Xuezhou.com.

After finding Sun Zhuo, Sun Haiyang drove thousands of miles with his family to meet him.

Parents who really love their children can't see their children seeking survival in the "quagmire", Sun Haiyang is willing to work for Sun Zhuo, and after the success of the search for a son, he is worried about his education.

This is the move and choice that real parents should make, he knows the importance of family education to children, may be the guilt in his heart, Sun Haiyang's concern for Sun Zhuo is more than other children.

Liu Xuezhou, a boy looking for relatives, why is the experience of Sun Zhuo very different: the disaster caused by different family education

Looking at Liu Xuezhou again, when the biological parents saw the situation of their children, they did not have the slightest intention of repentance, nor did they show any signs, and even the requirement of providing a place to live in the body thought that Liu Xuezhou was "greedy" and had a heart.

Liu Xuezhou's tragedy is heartbreaking, which has a great connection with his original family.

I don't know how the biological parents will feel when they hear the news of their child's light birth.

At the same time, I also hope that all parents can lead by example and give their children a good family education.

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