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In childhood, because of the simplicity of ideas and the innocence of thought, children can always say some wonderful and fanciful words. Think carefully about what they think, and you'll be moved by this innocence. Take care of this innocence and let it grow toward the sun.
Bud is over 4 years old and especially likes to chat with her mother. Always plan your future career and fantasize about what you want to do when you grow up. One day, Bud told her mother that when she grew up, she wanted to become a cake maker and make cakes for her family. Mom looked at the buds after hearing this, smiled warmly, and said that this was good. Sprout said that every day he went home with delicious cakes, and then sold a lot of cakes to make money to support the cake shop.
Mom seriously discussed with Bud the idea of becoming a cake maker. What should be learned as a pastry chef, what kind of cake shop to open in the future, what kind of cakes and shapes to do, etc., the mother and daughter chatted very happily, and the buds' faces were full of pride and happiness. Mom praised Bud for having a special idea, believing that she would realize her dreams. With the support of her mother, Bud was particularly happy.
Seemingly a small dream, in the eyes of children, but extraordinary, they will feel full of meaning and fun. Many parents often cultivate their children with beautiful and more gorgeous wishes, hoping that their children will have a grand plan in the future and have a lot of achievements. Children's cognition is limited, and they will think in the most natural and basic way of human beings.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > what dreams children dream of but are ordinary in the eyes of their parents</h1>
Be a pastry chef
Children love to eat sweets, cakes are beautiful in shape, sweet in taste, deeply liked by children. Children want to be cake masters, it is not difficult to understand, make their own cake, they can eat it if they want. Although the dream is small, you can see the child's plan for a better future.
The child in the previous article sprouts, wants to be a cake maker, but also because she wants to make cakes for her family to eat, the beauty of innocence lies in this, the child who is so warm in the heart, how important is such a dream to her, and the warm dream can enrich the child's childhood.
Be an excavator driver
Growing up and driving an excavator is the dream of many young boys. Playing with small trains, small planes, robots, etc., boys' hobbies are obviously different from those of girls, and they are more interested in mechanical and challenging toys and activities. As a special engineering model, the excavator is also interested in many boys because of the special driving method, and even attractive to many adult men.
When we often encounter construction sites with excavators on the road, we can see rows of men nearby stopping and watching, their eyes focused and their movements unified. It's also interesting to watch.
Open a pet shop
Children love small animals, it seems to be a natural emotion, this emotion is simple and sincere. Many families have the habit of having pets, children and pets such as kittens and puppies get along very well, and there is an emotional dependence on each other. Children who have pets will be softer at heart.
There are also some children, there are no pets at home, have been asking for the consent of their families to raise, in their eyes, small animals, cute to the extreme, can cute their hearts. In fact, keeping a pet is also an emotional sustenance for children. Many pets can share the feelings of lovers and help soothe people's psychology. Some people with personality anxiety and autism have a pet, which can play a great role in stabilizing emotions and relieving psychological tension.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > how important these seemingly ordinary but extraordinary dreams are to children</h1>
This is the child's yearning for a better life, which can make the child actively live and grow
Children's dreams are to do what they like, which is a positive yearning and planning for the future. With dreams, they already have a beautiful look of future life in their hearts, which will give them upward motivation to grow, to live, to desire the life they want, to achieve their dreams, children will be full of fighting spirit.
In The book of Tetsuko Kuroyanagi, after taking a tram ride, Xiao Doudou felt that the uncle who checked the ticket at the station was particularly magical, and she grew up to be a ticket inspector, she told her mother, her mother did not deny, her idea Mother will support at the first time, her mother especially cares about protecting Xiao Doudou's inner world, and her every strange idea has been fully understood by her mother, even if her mother has anxiety in her heart, she will not show it.
Children will know themselves and value themselves
When children's dreams of being large or small are recognized and supported, the child's inner sense of pride and value will arise spontaneously, and he will find self-worth and understand his importance. Children will take a hard look at themselves, find themselves, and know themselves. Such a child will be very clear in his heart, knowing what he wants to do and what he can do. With a clear goal, the closer you will be to success.
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Do less negation
Don't easily give your child's thoughts a negative conclusion. Dreams are the spiritual pillars that can support a person, and they are pregnant with countless hopes, or they can take root and blossom and bear fruit. What parents have to do is to take care of this precious hope with their children.
Don't worry that your child's dreams are too small and won't be big in the future. Children are in the stage of development, are growing, children will gradually have their own cognition, will understand the rules of the world, will form their own mature concepts. All parents have to do is be sure and supportive.
Provide nourishment for children's dreams to grow
Create more conditions for children to realize their dreams. In terms of children's interests, parents do more work and provide conditions within their capabilities. Let the child learn more about this knowledge and have a full understanding. Zeng Guofan came from a humble origin, but his life was enormous. He is noble, godchildren are generous, pay special attention to the development of children's interests, spiritual cultivation, and actively guide children, so among the descendants of Zeng Guofan, there is no shortage of intelligent people.
Parents are the most important guides on the road to their children's growth. Children's rationality is constantly growing, do not carve them, but guide them. Use your practical actions to lead the direction of the child, with your serious attitude, lead the child to create a dream.
Tagore said that dreams are beacons that guide the way forward in life. A man without a dream is like a bird without wings; a man without a dream is like a ship losing its way. Dreams are the best faith. Turn hope into strength, and there will be miracles. Protect your child's dreams and achieve a beautiful life for your child.
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