Every woman is looking forward to a man who is genuine about herself and can then hold hands for the rest of her life. However, when love really comes, women will fall into self-deception and can't figure out whether the man in front of them is really treating themselves.
It is said that there are more straight men among men, not without reason, and the way men express their feelings is more straightforward and rude, which is a less pleasant communication experience brought by the way of expression, which is to make people love and hate. But sometimes men also have their own hints, of course, more often only the man himself feels that it is a "hint", but the people around him may feel it, but it is undisguised.
Language is often the easiest medium to express emotions. What would it be like if a man extended an olive branch to you through words and showed affection? Men who dare to chat with you in these 4 ways have already identified you in their hearts, and women don't understand!
1. "Spoiled"
If you don't see and hear with your own eyes, it's hard to imagine a big man who can be a spoiled child.
Spoiling may seem more like a woman's prerogative, but when a man shows to be spoiled, it is often the most relaxed time. This kind of performance, which is different from usual, comes more from the desire to get your attention, or the hope that you can pay more attention to him.
If there is no careful thinking, which man will spoil it? In the group of men, spoiled, how to look at some of the masculine, by other friends to know, should inevitably be a ridicule. So when a man coddles you, you may not be able to run away, and you will be shot by his cupid's arrow.
2. Seriously talk to you about the future
When he and you seriously talk about the future without mixing in any of the usual giggles, perhaps the blueprint for the future he has drawn has left you half of the place.
The reason why I am so serious is to reveal to you that I am not joking, I really set the direction of the future, and I can take good responsibility for your future.
This is when men are the most serious and the most rational. What he is talking about, whether it is explicit or not, the so-called future is a shorthand of the future with you. This time is fatal, because the man has firmly believed that you are going to the temple of love, and he has already identified you.
3, thinking about the problem is always in your position
Usually, the average person should think about the problem from their own standpoint, analyzing the pros and cons and even more so.
If a man, after knowing that you have a problem, does not say what will happen if it is him, but seriously helps you analyze the pros and cons, and analyzes the problem from your point of view. Then you are already a particularly important role in his life, and he treats you as his own.
For you, it is more about watching, but caring, not wanting to be a spectator in your life, but wanting to participate in it, living well with you, and seeing your interests as your own. This kind of man, that is, reliable and difficult to refuse, I am afraid that when you encounter this situation, it is difficult to escape the "claws" of love.
4. Willing to open your heart in front of you
We know that men are generally very deep, pretend to be sophisticated, and show a mature and stable appearance, that is because this society has high requirements for them, and they need this to be better recognized and trusted.
If a man can completely open his heart when chatting with you, without a mask, and say anything, it means that the man has a lot of trust in you.
Because in his heart he has long determined that you are his other half, he has no scruples about being himself in front of you.
Men are often simple, many attempts are obvious, as long as you think about it, you can find out which men are interesting to themselves, and you can think more calmly about the problem of two people, rather than one person bumping into the fawn.
I hope that we can all be recognized by the other half of the second half of life, work hard, live well, even if it is inevitable to experience some snow and wind, but also to manage the rest of the two people's lives, come on!
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