These three behaviors of parents will make children more and more rebellious, you know? Hello everyone, welcome to today's Corrective Parent-Child Class. We often hear people say that parents are the originals, children are copies of parents, education needs to be taught by example, and parents are the best examples for children, but how many people can really do this? In fact, many of the problems in children are caused by adults, especially parents with these three behaviors, which will push their children to the brink of rebellion.
1. Do not listen to the child's explanation. Can a person who is not a sage be blameless, let alone a child? In the process of growing up, it is inevitable that children will make mistakes, but parents must give them a chance to explain, then they explain the reasons for their mistakes, maybe they are kind? But because of the limited ability, so bad things have been done, if the parents do not even give the child the opportunity to explain, this will only make the parent-child relationship between you more and more distant.
2. Criticize children in front of outsiders. There is a saying called "people before the godson, people after the trainer" in order to save some face for their husbands, so they choose to train the husband after the people, and in the face of the wrong children, many parents do not have so much scruples, often regardless of the occasion began to criticize the children, even in the public they have no scruples, but this kind of education method that does not consider the child's feelings will inadvertently hurt the child's self-esteem, let him begin to hate the parents, and from then on always work against the parents.
3. Nagging. To ask children what their parents can't stand the most, I think 80% of young people will answer nagging. This is also a common problem for many parents, whether the child is listening or not, they keep talking. Only by talking less and listening more, two-way communication can bring the relationship between parents and children closer and achieve a high degree of spiritual fit. Constant nagging will only push the child to the brink of rebellion.
Parents do not complain that their children are not close to themselves, before complaining, first consider whether their own practices are appropriate, whether the child's education is really appropriate, find that the child has abnormal performance, you must reflect on your own behavior in time, the so-called raising the godfather's fault, do not always stare at the child's mistakes, reflect more on yourself. If at the moment, you have any parent-child problems or education problems that need to be solved urgently, welcome to leave a message in the comment area, or you can tell me through the background private message! We promise to do our best to answer your questions!