In the recent situation of Yu Dan, in the days when she fell to the altar, her husband Ji Dafeng silently paid for it and did not abandon Herman Hesse once said in "Knowledge and Love" that any real life is a struggle

In the recent situation of Yu Dan, in the days when she fell to the altar, her husband Ji Dafeng silently paid and did not give up

Hermann Hesse once said in Knowledge and Love that any real life is a struggle and a sacrifice. Seemingly ordinary life may cost a huge amount of effort and cost, and in real life, knowledge and love are also two extremely important and different dimensions in life.

First, the teenagers are married and walk hand in hand

Born in 1965, Yu Dan, like many happy children in childhood, under the careful education of her parents, she found her interest early, immersed herself in the world of classical literature, and applied for related majors in college.

Along the way, the longer she immersed herself in classical culture, the more she was changed by these words that have been charming for thousands of years, and the profundity of Chinese culture touched her and made her more and more determined in her original choice.

In the pursuit of knowledge, Yu Dan also encountered his own love. Yu Dan, who is familiar with classical Chinese literature, dares to pursue her own happiness, even though the two seem to have "improper doors and wrong households" at that time, she still insists on choosing to enter the palace of marriage with each other.

Companionship is the longest confession of affection, the lingering pity in the university has continued until after marriage, the two people who grew up together have enough understanding and tolerance for each other, Yu Dan after marriage is intoxicated with work, and her husband Ji Dafeng has always been her solid backing, not only taking the initiative to deal with family chores, but also caring for her at all times, very supportive of her career.

Second, take the stage and star-studded

Years of hard work and struggle finally paid off, and by chance, the "Hundred Family Pulpit" that was on fire at that time found her. The "Hundred Tribunes" program is committed to allowing experts in the field of culture to stand on the stage to disseminate knowledge and understand traditional Chinese culture for ordinary people without conditions.

Many well-known professors and scholars in the industry shared the knowledge of unique thinking in the program, impressed the audience in front of the TV set with their profound professional qualities, and also achieved a group of "cultural stars".

As a professor at a well-known university, Yu Dan stood on the stage at that time to explain the book "Analects" to everyone, with rich knowledge reserves and kind and vivid interpretations, which made the boring and tedious historical relics suddenly become colorful and colorful.

The Analects returned to everyone's hands, and Yu Dan entered everyone's field of vision. At that time, the masters and professors had not been stigmatized, and with the wave of Sinology fanaticism that was set off at that time, Yu Dan also became an academic star in everyone's eyes, and was invited to various stages and lectures, and the aura was comparable to today's traffic star.

But only her husband Ji Dafeng knows that behind his wife's success is countless sweat and hard work, and when everyone exclaims her achievements, he sincerely praises his wife's efforts and dedication.

Third, fall to the bottom, do not abandon

There is no perfect person in this world, and Yu Dan is no exception, becoming a public figure, accepting all the aura and envy at the same time, but also to withstand the eyes of the public at all times. Becoming a saint comes at a price, and if you are polite and knowledgeable in the eyes of the audience, then you have to satisfy their imagination in all the details.

People who understand the program attributes of "Hundred Tribunes" know that it is not a product of dissolving meaning and ideals, and in the atmosphere of the times of high standards and high requirements, every word and deed of public figures will be bound by established value norms, not to mention Yu Dan, who promotes these ideas.

However, Yu Dan's words and deeds in real life seem to be very different from what she said, ren yi li zhixin was covered up by the pearlescent aura brought by the lofty fame and fortune, and the interpretation of the peaceful living place was still in the ear, and in the blink of an eye, people saw a noble lady who was pampered and superior.

Disillusionment was shattered, enthusiasm drowned, and the previously grand fame began to regurgitate. At the Kunqu Forum hosted by Peking University, people finally couldn't resist her long-standing arrogant attitude and blasted her off the podium.

Originally, the Kunqu Opera Forum was set up for the exchange of experts who studied Kunqu Opera, and the students also benefited a lot in this forum, in the process of the forum, many Kunqu artists should have made the final summary speech, but after ending their intermediate links, they all went down, because the organizer invited Yu Dan to make a speech in the final link.

However, Yu Dan's performance at this time, who talked about it on the "Hundred Family Pulpit", was very lame, she neither understood kunqu culture, nor did she know that she did not understand kunqu culture, and she tried to fool through the stage with gibberish, which completely caused dissatisfaction among everyone, and she not only insulted the title of "master", but also insulted the audience.

After this incident, Yu Dan completely fell off the altar, people looked at her like a joke, the previous scenery was gone, her works were no longer influential, and people gradually forgot about her.

Yu Dan's life also had to undergo tremendous changes as a result, suffering such a huge gap change, it was bound to endure the pain of tearing his heart and lungs to survive, on the one hand, he had to face up to the glory and dignity that had been shattered, and on the other hand, he had to regroup and prepare for the future, but how easy was this, who could really tear himself apart?

Fortunately, Dan has a husband who truly loves her, and when the two people meet in the micro, no one knows the person he loves more than himself, and to love someone is to accept everything from her. In the eyes of others, Yu Dan is a professor, a scholar, and a clown who is beautiful for a while but is ugly, but in Ji Dafeng's eyes, she is just her lover.

He could not watch his wife go to the desperate situation of life, and in the days when she fell to the altar, he had been silently paying and never abandoning, and finally pulled her out of the abyss.

Love and companionship will change a person's state of mind, and Ji Dafeng's firm choice and inseparable companionship also give Yu Dan courage and strength, maybe she let herself down, but her husband did not disappoint her, which is her bottom from scratch.

Yu Dan's recent situation has improved significantly in the company of her husband Ji Dafeng, who actively adjusts her mentality, strives to cheer up, sees her situation clearly, and is no longer afraid of those failures and setbacks.