Someone said: Giving up on someone you like feels like a fire that burns into your house, you know it's your home, but you can't go back.
The famous Northern Song Dynasty poet Su Shi once wrote in "Water Tune Song Head": The moon has yin and sun, and people have sorrows and joys. Yes, life is alive, and separation is inevitable. Just like some people, fate comes and goes, are destined to be passers-by in your life, while some people, but they break the thread and accompany you through the journey of life.
Sometimes, I think the thing of life is really strange, and you will inadvertently meet the loved one of your life in a corner, or inadvertently lose the one who hurts you at a certain corner.
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I don't know if you ever thought about what you would do if one day, the person you loved left?
Will you be calm, helpless, or broken and don't know how to tell? Will you calm down and wait silently, or will you not know how to wipe the tears when they flow? Will you be devastated and remorseful, or will you not be able to convince yourself to believe it despite the facts?
Leaving, in fact, means that from now on you and I turn around, no longer have anything to do with each other, no longer intersect, from this bridge to the bridge, the road to the road, fade out of each other's lives, withdraw from each other's world. For the rest of their lives, they will not disturb each other, they will not be related to each other, each will have joys and sorrows, and each life will be happy.
Probably, without going through something, you never know who is true love, but the price is too high. Maybe I still love you after leaving you, but I don't like you anymore. Because I will think of our past, I still love you; because I don't want to think about our future anymore, I don't like you anymore. Because I can't control my unforgettable memories of you, I still love you; because I don't expect anything about you anymore, I don't like you anymore.
The departure of some people, whether you like it or not, must be faced and accepted.
Seeing such a sentence: If you die, I would like to be buried with you, but you are alive, and I do not want to live with you.
Although I have had a thousand times of the urge to contact you, in the end I have convinced myself to choose to let go. Despite the pain in my heart like a pinprick the moment I let go, I decided to leave because I understood how deeply I loved and how determined I should be when I left.
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Just like in a relationship, if you lose the desire to share, it can be a terrible thing.
Once, you would see that beautiful cloud on the way to work, and you would like to photograph it immediately and send it to him. Now, even if that cloud looks better, you don't think of him anymore.
Once upon a time, you would want to be cared for by relatives every month. Now, even if you're sick and hospitalized, you no longer crave what he can do for you.
Once, you would play strategy on Baidu before every holiday and wanted to go sightseeing with him. Nowadays, even if you enjoy the scenery alone, you no longer desire him to be free to accompany you.
Love in real life, even people who once loved each other deeply, cannot guarantee that they can love each other for a lifetime.
Life is in the world, things are unpredictable, many things are difficult to predict, and emotional things are changing rapidly. Maybe you still love each other wholeheartedly, but the other party has quietly changed his heart, and even empathized with each other.
A changed heart, no matter how hard you try, can not be recovered; a broken relationship, no matter how you save, can not be reunited.
In love, when you lose your expectations for him, it is actually too much disappointment accumulated in the past. Many people who want to leave are not because of the big things that happened between the two people, but because of the accumulation of those big sesame big things.
A straw can crush a camel, let alone a disappointed heart! When you see the human heart clearly, it also indicates that the enthusiastic heart will gradually become cold.
Maybe it's because your message goes from seconds back to reincarnation; maybe your phone is always hanging up in a beeping busy tone; maybe he's always busy when you need him. Water can drip through stones, but also can drip water into ice. So, a person who has no expectations is also a person who no longer loves you, and she will take the initiative to leave you, abandon you, and completely disappear from your life.
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Some people say: Two people together, not you have to, but feel that it will be better to have you.
Of course, because you are good, you want to be loved, you want to be accompanied by you in every lonely time, you want to face her in front of every big wind and wave. However, your arrival not only did not alleviate loneliness, but after saying that you loved you again, you could not give anything, and even made you more lonely and more lost in your heart.
Some fates are exhausted, it is not your fault, only blame each other's fate is not enough, there is no reason to continue to stay together in this life. And you are still the original you, even better than ever, but he doesn't know how to appreciate.
Therefore, instead of clinging to a love that does not belong to you, it is better to leave the scene calmly, and instead of giving up, it is better to let him withdraw from your world.
If you like it, add a point of attention to praise, if one day, the people around you decide to leave, it may not be that you don't love, but that you have saved enough disappointment. May you not let the people who love you down!
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