The book of Verses begins by saying, "A lady, a gentleman." The so-called "lady" is not only to have a good face, but also to have an elegant temperament. Women can not be pretty

The book of Verses begins by saying, "A lady, a gentleman." The so-called "lady" is not only to have a good face, but also to have an elegant temperament. Women can not be beautiful, but in any case can not be elegant, beautiful can only be for people to watch, and elegance can give people a long aftertaste. Just like milk tea Rene Liu, although there is no national color and heavenly fragrance, her talent, gentleness, freshness and authenticity all exude a feminine and moving temperament.

This is elegance, sensual but not arrogant, elegant but not arrogant, introverted but not funny. Navieve, a titan of the French fashion scene. Anton Lee. De Ario said: "Elegance is a kind of harmony, very similar to beauty, except that beauty is a gift from Heaven, and elegance is the product of art." A truly elegant woman, even if she just sits silently, is detached and casual enough to stop the eyes of the crowd. ”

I believe that all women in the world hope that they can have such charm, but elegance is not something that can be piled up by materials, nor can it be decorated by various brand-name clothing and brand-name cosmetics, but the state of mind, temperament and taste that a woman cultivates with the transformation of time and space and the transformation of roles. The elegance of the twenties, without the foreshadowing of the years, mostly looks thin. The elegance of the thirties is restrained, full and rich. Therefore, 25 to 30 years old is the best time for us to cultivate elegance.

Refuse to be a scrawled woman

Most women will dress themselves neatly and beautifully before going out, but very few women will dress up even if they do not go out, and the famous Taiwanese writer Qiong Yao is one of the few people.

Qiong Yao's life is very regular, every morning after getting up, she will carefully freshen up, put on light makeup, and then go into the study and start writing. During this time, she would not see anyone, even if she was faced with a thick pile of manuscript paper all day, she would seriously dress herself up. Therefore, even though Qiong Yao has reached the age of Hua Jia, when she appears in front of everyone, that elegant temperament can still shock the audience.

It is not easy to achieve elegance to the point of Qiong Yao, and the difference between a delicate woman and a scrawled woman lies in this. We may not be able to dress ourselves up to be exquisite even if we don't go out, but we can at least do it without scribbling ourselves on any occasion.

Be a calm woman

In the TV series "The Biography of Zhen Huan", when the emperor chose a concubine, he would deliberately create some accidents to test the show girls to be selected, and one of the show girls was shocked because she saw a barking puppy, and the result was not only unsuccessful, but also punished for losing her dignity in front of the palace. The protagonist Zhen Huan did not change her face, and still stood in the same place as if nothing had happened.

This is an elegant woman, who will not be busy because of sudden situations, all of which comes from their calmness, from the appearance and connotation of xiuwaihui. The beauty of a calm woman contains a deep charm, not just on the surface. Their hearts are calmly guarded by tranquility in the hustle and bustle of urban mobility, and there is an otherworldly refinement in their temperament and demeanor. Calm women always smile in the face of difficulties and the environment. They do not worry about daily chores, do not worry about the pressures of life, and do not worry and be melancholy about the fickleness of modern people's children.

Even if the body and mind are injured again and again, even if life is frustrated again and again, the calm woman will still be more tolerant, more grateful, and more beautiful after all the vicissitudes but still at ease with the encounter.

Grace in behavior

Elegant women will stand with their breasts up and their stomachs, their eyes calmly staring ahead, and they will appear in this posture on any occasion. If we are not used to this posture, then quietly practice it at home, first of all, the heels, hips, shoulders, the back of the head against the wall, and then the hands are vertically lowered, the legs are together to do a standing posture for half an hour, insist on it every day, and soon this standing posture will become our habit.

Sit with your upper body straight, sit on your hips only one-third of the chair, and place your legs side by side on the left or right side, or you can put one leg on the other. Remember to spread your legs apart, or tilt your legs over a chair or table.

When walking, you should also look up and straighten your chest and abdomen, and always walk with your head down to give people a feeling of insecurity, which is not the state that elegant women should show. Imagine that the road you walk every day is a stage, and there are countless people watching us, so we must step out of our momentum, neither striding meteors, nor like Japanese women, taking small steps and counting bricks.

Create a captivating voice

The voice of an elegant woman will make people feel happy and full of attraction. If you add up the gentle language, the kind attitude, the gentle tone, and the peaceful melody, it will make a mediocre woman become extremely feminine and make her charm double. Such a woman, even if she is old one day, will never lose her charm.

Women's voices can be trained, and it is said that all U.S. presidents are trained in voices. Some government officials, company executives, TV hosts, etc. will also participate in sound training, and the focus of the training is to emphasize lowering the tone.

If we are not satisfied with our voice, we can consider buying a children's book, following the pinyin above, and reading practice. We can also pay attention to the way the radio announcer speaks, and we will find that the announcer pays great attention to the change of pitch, and the words are clear, without accent, and there is a proper pause between each syllable, and the speed of speaking is not too fast or too slow, but a sense of music with fast and slow.