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Nie Xihuan, a bully of the cold door: Even if you are poor, you must give up your bursaries, and people are not poor

author:Childlike student observation

This little girl, named Nie Xihuan, is an ordinary "running" girl at the foot of Wangwu Mountain, who had to walk many mountain roads every day in her childhood to successfully study.

Nie Xihuan, a bully of the cold door: Even if you are poor, you must give up your bursaries, and people are not poor

She is the only hope in the unfortunate family, only to earn a way out by reading. In the second year of high school, he won the national bursary quota with excellent results, which was equivalent to the living expenses of the girl's family for nearly half a year.

Turning his head to see the students who had a more difficult life behind him, Nie Xihuan took the initiative to give up his place. Why would she want to do that? What kind of sad moments did she have in her upbringing? Listen to ziya childlike student observation for you to explain.

Strong girls in the wind and rain gradually grew up

Nie Xihuan was born in 1996 in a village in Dayu Town, Jiyuan, Henan. A family of three lives in the mountains, all income depends on the few acres of thin fields at the door, living in hardship, but there is no shortage of laughter. Nie Xihuan grew up in such a relaxed atmosphere.

Nie Xihuan, a bully of the cold door: Even if you are poor, you must give up your bursaries, and people are not poor

But that all changed when she was 5 years old. The sudden car accident made the mother disabled, and then the high medical expenses hollowed out the entire family, and the burden of life fell on the father alone.

Seeing that farming can no longer meet the expenses of the whole family, plus the daughter is also approaching the age of studying. Nie's father finally decided to go out to work, and the family's affairs could only be carried by 5-year-old Nie Xihuan.

Not only do you have to wash and cook, accompany your mother to do rehabilitation training, and the little girl must also learn the way the neighbors look and do some simple farm work in the field. Don't look at the child is not too big, there is still a look at the work.

Nie Xihuan, a bully of the cold door: Even if you are poor, you must give up your bursaries, and people are not poor

The family was well taken care of by Nie Xihuan, and her mother also had some slight improvement under her care. People who have not experienced the lack of access may feel that such a thing is something that a little girl cannot do.

But when it really comes to the moment when I have to shoulder a heavy responsibility, there are not a few children who support a family by their own strength.

As soon as he was 7 years old, Nie Xihuan's father sent his child to a primary school in a neighboring village. At this time, the mother already has a certain ability to take care of herself.

Every day to walk back and forth for several miles on the mountain road to school, at noon can not return home, Nie Xihuan will get up early in the morning, make breakfast and lunch after saying goodbye to his mother, and then go to school with his friends.

Nie Xihuan, a bully of the cold door: Even if you are poor, you must give up your bursaries, and people are not poor

After school in the afternoon, she would rush home, and after making dinner, the little girl would go to the field to drag home some of the corn that the villagers had helped break.

Once, the mother and daughter were peeling corn at home, and they were still chatting, but suddenly the mother fainted. Panicked, Nie Xihuan shouted loudly for his neighbors to come and help.

The neighbor's aunt struggled to lift her mother up, and then asked Nie Xihuan to call the village doctor. The nie family's mother, who was treated, was initially diagnosed with high blood pressure that night and had to take medicine.

Write down the medicine list for the little girl, and the doctor asks her to find someone to go to town to buy medicine and come back. Nie Xihuan only found a dozen pieces of change when she rummaged through the boxes and cabinets, and in desperation, she turned her head and went to her aunt's house a few miles away to borrow money.

Nie Xihuan, a bully of the cold door: Even if you are poor, you must give up your bursaries, and people are not poor

It was dark, and the little girl was running alone on the mountain road, borrowing money and running to the town hospital to buy medicine without delay.

The girl who bears the burden silently ushers in a moment of emotional outburst

When I returned home in the middle of the night, my mother was awake and several neighbors had brought some food. The heart that was tugging suddenly let go, wiping away the wet eye sockets, Nie Xihuan did not care to rest, turned around and went to the kitchen to boil water.

While giving the mother medicine, he poured a large glass full of water for several neighbors, which also made the neighbor shout that the little girl was really sensible. After the neighbor left, the mother looked at the scratches and scrapes on the branches of the child's body and silently shed tears.

Nie Xihuan, a bully of the cold door: Even if you are poor, you must give up your bursaries, and people are not poor

Although life is full of thorns, Nie Xihuan has always adhered to the belief in life with laughter, and has done her best to do a good job in the family and let her mother and father live a little easier.

In addition, her grades are also among the best in school, and she is often praised by teachers.

In 2007, Nie Xihuan was admitted to Dayu No. 3 Middle School in the town with the first good result in the school and became a junior high school student. Once a week, the girl had a job that was always put first – bringing medicine to her mother.

Buying medicine is a huge expense for the family, in order to make his father less tired, Nie Xihuan often saves money and saves living expenses to subsidize the family.

Nie Xihuan, a bully of the cold door: Even if you are poor, you must give up your bursaries, and people are not poor

At the end of one year, everyone was nervously reviewing, and Nie Xihuan was suddenly called out of the classroom by the class teacher.

The class teacher relayed a phone call from his mother, saying that the wheat in the family was ripe, and the father could not come back this year, the crops in the field did not wait for anyone, and if they did not collect it, they would rot. The little girl did not say a word, and the class teacher silently approved her leave.

Back at home, Nie Xihuan didn't say anything more, took the farm tools and came to the field to work. Carrying two loads of wheat home when it was dark, the mother couldn't help but shed tears of pain as she watched her daughter's bent waist.

Unexpectedly, the mother's tears made the daughter's emotions explode, followed by a big quarrel. Nie Xihuan didn't understand why she had to be called back to do farm work by her mother at the moment of studying, couldn't she wait for her to go home on vacation?

Nie Xihuan, a bully of the cold door: Even if you are poor, you must give up your bursaries, and people are not poor

From the time the class teacher informed her, her emotions erupted until now, as if uncontrollably, and the girl questioned her mother in tears. But not long after the words rushed out, Nie Xihuan regretted it.

Her parents' hardships she has always seen in her eyes, and what should be harshly condemned? Crying and saying sorry, the little girl shut herself in her room all night, and the next day at dawn she went to the field to cut wheat.

Perhaps because she had not had enough to eat for a long time, she had a nosebleed when she worked during the day. After a busy day, he rinsed his face with cool water, and Nie Xihuan hurriedly finished collecting the wheat and rushed home. After taking care of the upper and lower levels, the moon was already on the top, and without delay, the girl hurried to school again.

Nie Xihuan, a bully of the cold door: Even if you are poor, you must give up your bursaries, and people are not poor

Someone is more bitter than me, someone needs help more than I do

Maybe it was too hard, coupled with the emotional catharsis, Nie Xihuan fell ill the next day after he arrived at school, and the whole person was dizzy, and he couldn't even go to class.

One of her classmates in the dormitory was worried and stayed in the dormitory to take care of her. This was the first time the little girl had been sick, and it was also the first time she had experienced the feeling of being taken care of when she grew up.

After recovering from her illness, the class teacher learned from her about the situation and understood the difficulties in the students' lives, and the teacher also enlightened her many times. With the help of classmates and teachers, Nie Xihuan adjusted his mentality and his academic performance also moved forward.

Nie Xihuan, a bully of the cold door: Even if you are poor, you must give up your bursaries, and people are not poor

The three years of junior high school passed in a flash, and the outstanding girl received an acceptance letter from Jiyuan No. 1 Middle School.

Borrowing a classmate's mobile phone to share good news with his father who works in Inner Mongolia, and after the happiness, the ensuing tuition fee problem has become a big mountain, pressing on the family's heart.

High school is no longer part of the compulsory education period, tuition and book fees must be paid by each family, a school year of more than 1,000 yuan of costs, plus monthly living expenses, Nie family worried.

Just when they didn't know what to do, the village cadres knocked on the door of the Nie family. Because Nie Xihuan is an only child, there is a reward and support policy, plus she has excellent grades, and the family is indeed poor, the village took the initiative to apply for a scholarship for her.

Nie Xihuan, a bully of the cold door: Even if you are poor, you must give up your bursaries, and people are not poor

That's enough money for her three years of tuition. The family was overjoyed, and the father's Yali plummeted, only to solve the daughter's daily living expenses.

In the second year of high school, with his own excellence and the recommendation of his classmates, Nie Xihuan got the application form for the national scholarship. But no one expected that the next day, Nie Xihuan returned the clean form to the class teacher.

She said that although her family situation was not good, she could still stick to it. She had been blessed by too many people since she was a child, and there were people in the school who needed the money more than she did. So she wanted to give up this quota to those who needed it more.

Nie Xihuan, a bully of the cold door: Even if you are poor, you must give up your bursaries, and people are not poor

With a grateful heart, even if Nie Xihuan later entered the university and worked hard every day to support herself, she also tried her best to provide the love and dedication within her ability for those who needed help around her.

Learning to be grateful is a simple word, but it's not so easy to actually practice. Nie Xihuan, an ordinary girl, interpreted the boundless love with practical actions, just as she insisted: as long as she is strong, ordinary can become extraordinary!

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