01.
In 2004, Shang Zhi was still a car repairman, and was called to a party by a friend, which also began a journey of love.
Speaking of the first meeting, he remembered every detail clearly.
That night, Shang Zhi sat on the far left side of the party, and because he was unwell, he was very excited, did not drink alcohol, did not eat meat, and sat dry.
His appearance infuriated one of the girls at the scene, and as he was about to leave, the girls shouted at him:
"Hey, what's your attitude?" Don't come if you don't like it, come with a proud look, as if the girls who come here are very frivolous. ”
Shang Zhi did not expect that his words and deeds would give the other party such a feeling, and quickly said: "I'm sorry." ”
He sincerely apologized, which made the girl lose her temper and ask him why he wanted to apologize.
Shangzhi said, "My stomach hurts. ”
As it turned out, the girl was relieved when she learned about it, and when Shangzhi was preparing to get into the car, the girl jumped and ran again, handed him a warm baby, and said: "Take it to warm your stomach." ”
After saying that, the girl turned and ran away.
This scene has always been embedded in Shangzhi's mind, he felt the beauty of being cared for by girls for the first time, if love at first sight is the germination of affection, then he should be in love with each other.
However, Shang Zhi never expected that this love would be so tortuous.
02.
Under the introduction of a friend, Shangzhi and the girl officially met, and he learned that the girl's name was Mai.
The girl also knows that he is a car repairer, in the eyes of many people, the status of the car repairer is humble, but the girl does not see it that way, she smiled and boasted: "I think it is very good, you like to repair the car, repairing the car is also your job." ”
Being recognized by the girl you like is the wish of many boys.
Shangzhi felt that he was very lucky, and he secretly decided to take good care of this girl who knew himself.
Soon, they were dating, eating and shopping together.
Like many couples, Shangzhi also wants to record the moments when the two get along, and when they date, they will take photos of Mai eating or playing.
Mai's personality is very straightforward, and he will praise him without stinginess: "You are too gentle." ”
When they get along, Mai also regards him as his confidant and pours out his troubles in life.
The most harmonious moment of love is when someone understands their feelings, and fortunately, they understand each other.
Shangzhi's love for Mai is also seen by Mai's parents, and as long as their daughter is happy, they also express their support.
On a date out, passing by an auditorium where the couple were holding a wedding, perhaps touched by the scene, Shangzhi took Mai's hand and also went to make an appointment for the wedding, which was March 17, the day they first met.
After returning home, Shangzhi happily prepared for the wedding, just 3 months before the wedding, Mai suddenly fell ill, convulsed, memory loss, after being rescued, although not life-threatening, but fell into a coma.
Doctors said that Mai got the ovaries to cause anti-NMDA receptor encephalitis, in short, the ovaries have tumors, but the body has antibodies, but the antibodies mistakenly attack the brain.
The disease is so rare that one in 3 million people may occur, and there is little chance of regaining consciousness.
Looking at Mai on the hospital bed, Shang Zhi's heart was like a knife, but he didn't want to give up lightly, even if he had to wait for a lifetime, he had to stay by her side.
03.
Since then, at a fixed time every day, Shangzhi's figure will appear in the hospital.
Before going to work, Shang zhi would come over and say good morning to her and cheer her up to "cheer up and get back to health."
After work, he would come and share the day's experience with Mai and massage her arms and legs, nagging like an old husband and wife.
Shoji also uses his mobile phone to record small videos of his life, and he wants to wait for Mai to wake up and see them so that he doesn't miss those good times.
"Today is the 8th day after Mai fell asleep, I walked and fell, what a fool, fortunately she didn't see it, she hasn't woken up yet."
"Mai has been asleep for 100 days, and I've grown a few strands of white hair, do you want to pull them out?"
"It's been 123 days, Mai still sleeps so soundly, when to go and see the puppy you like, it's grown up."
"I made pasta once today, it's so hard to eat, I miss the taste of what you made, 200 years later, I hope you can wake up." 」
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Many people think that Mai will not wake up, including her parents, who advise Shangzhi to leave and find a girl to start a new life.
But Shangzhi refused, even if she had been asleep, he would stay by her side.
Perhaps it was his persistence that touched the heavens, and after his fiancée had been sleeping for 2190 days, he finally opened his eyes, but the eyes were empty, and she no longer remembered the man in front of her.
The doctor said that it was a rebirth, in layman's terms, that is, her IQ returned to her infancy, and the experiences that had already happened could not be remembered.
At that moment, Shang Zhi burst into tears, could it be that their love would also be gone?
04.
Life is full of surprises and surprises, and Shangzhi still decides not to give up.
Even if Mai didn't remember himself, he had to guard her side, so he accompanied her every day to do rehabilitation training, accompany her to dinner, and help her pinch her feet.
After more than a year, Mai gradually regained consciousness, and she slowly remembered her parents and friends, but she did not remember Shangzhi.
Moreover, she has a kind of resistance to this very enthusiastic man, and when Shangzhi tells her that he will marry Mai, Mai feels pain.
She wanted to remember the man in front of her, but she didn't have any impression, and seeing Mai in tears, Shangzhi decided to let go.
So, for the first time, he left the girl who had been guarding for more than 7 years and returned to his world, immersed in work, hoping to forget the pain with busyness.
But fate did not give up on him, one day, Mai accidentally saw the phone, opened it, and found those videos.
Every video is the figure of Shang zhi, and the words that Shang Zhi shou said in front of his hospital bed, that familiar bit by bit, finally broke through the shackles, back to her mind, she remembered, this person named Shang Zhi, is her fiancé.
Mai remembers that they had agreed that the wedding day was March 17, and when she came to the auditorium, the staff recognized her at once, saying that every year there was a boy who would come to explain that the wedding would be postponed to the same day of the following year.
Mai burst into tears, and she found Shangzhi and said to the stunned, "You fool, I remember." ”
"I've been waiting for you." Shang Zhiyong hugged her and cried into tears.
After 8 years, Shangzhi finally walked into the wedding with Mai, Mai lost the memory of 8 years, but Shangzhi's love for her has never been missing, delicate and persistent.
This is a true story, the mai monks in life now have a lovely son, and their love has also been made into the movie "The Bride Spanning 8 Years".
Some people ask, what kind of love is the most beautiful?
In my opinion, good love is not about vigorous, but about the trust and companionship that is not abandoned, even if the partner is sick or encounters difficulties, the other party can still guard the side, regardless of the result, such sincere love is very weighty, but also enough to touch people's hearts.