There is a saying that goes like this: Life is in the sea, mountains and rivers, but err. When you look back on the past, will you also be sad, and after a long silence, you will sigh.
It's over, it's all over.
Just like the poem written by Xin Zhiyi, when you really taste the sour, sweet, bitter and spicy in the world, after all kinds of tastes, there is often a sadness in your chest that "wants to say goodbye".
Time has passed, things are not human, and both gain and loss come so quickly. All we can do is let go. Let go of past established facts, let go of entangled relationships, let go of diverse desires.
Your hand grips on unimportant things too tightly, how can you grasp other better things?
01 Let go of the past and move forward lightly
During the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a man named Meng Min who often carried crock pots to the street to sell. Once, when people were coming and going, his crock pot accidentally fell to the ground and shattered. But this man walked forward as if he did not know, and his head did not turn back.
When the famous scholar Guo Tai saw it, he quickly stopped him and asked him why he didn't look back? Meng Min answered:
"What's the use of looking?" They're all broken. ”
Some people, who do not believe in evil, know that it is an irreparable thing, and still have to think about it back and forth in their hearts. In the dead of night, others have fallen asleep and are ready for the next day's sun. But he tossed and turned, imprisoning himself in the cage of the past.
Broken mirrors are difficult to reunite, and even if the broken tiles are picked up, they have no other use than becoming a burden. It is better to put it down on the spot and walk forward without turning your head back.
You've walked too long on your back, it's time to put it down.
Letting go of the past and moving forward lightly is a kind of wisdom in life and a continuation of a better life.
02 Love origins are extinguished, no wrong marriage
It is said that there is a reason to meet thousands of miles, and there is no reason not to meet on the other side. The encounter between people and people may really be related to the illusory "fate".
Some couples are plain and not noisy, and love has not been able to enter the marriage hall for several years. Some couples are divided and combined, eager to cry twice a day and hang themselves three times, but they inexplicably and wonderfully receive the red book.
Can't help but sigh, this fate is really wonderful.
Don't blame yourself, did you do something wrong? Don't you deserve good love? It's not like that, it's just that fate is over.
Miyazaki once said: "When the person who accompanies you is going to get off the bus, even if you don't give up, you have to be grateful and wave goodbye." ”
It doesn't matter at all whether it is right or wrong. It's important that you dry your tears, get your mood up, and then greet the next person on the bus.
If there is a good person elsewhere, do not miss the marriage when the love does not know.
03 If you clarify the world is clean
Peking Opera actress Wang Peiyu, who has been gifted since childhood, when he was in his twenties, he won the big and small Peking Opera awards over and over again, and the scenery was infinite for a while.
But after becoming famous, she lost her way. Spending money lavishly without moderation, and indulging her appetite when the pressure was too great, made her gain more than ten pounds in a short period of time.
Just as the rising star was about to fall, her master taught her:
"Don't sing for your livelihood, so that you can sing expensively, there is no material desire, and the rest is the desire for Peking Opera itself."
This sentence woke her up, and she began to control her diet, abandon the pursuit of luxury brands, and creatively bring Peking Opera to young people through the Internet.
She seems to be more famous than before, but she is sober this time:
"Keep a certain distance from fame and fortune, don't be too red, too red will interfere." People's desires are endless, red is still red, rich and rich, need a lot of self-consciousness, cultivation to suppress themselves. ”
Man is always insatiable, and when he gets one thing, he wants another thing. But you know, when your virtue and cultivation are not so deep, you can't control these desires.
Hasty possession of too many desires will only cause trouble to the upper body and finally lose.
If you clarify the spiritual platform, let the world be disturbed, and you will not be able to move a single bit.
Finally, to share a paragraph:
The desired shoe is out of code, go to the next shop to pick and choose, and buy a beautiful coat is also very good;
The noodle restaurant that I often went to eat was closed, so I went to another house to eat a bowl of delicious flour;
People who like it leave, take classes seriously, work hard, and make more money.
There are countless ways to make yourself happy, and there are countless paths to the future. People will always grow, what was once addicted to, will slowly become a dispensable pastime, nothing is irreplaceable, go forward, everything is still possible.