Problems, symptoms, diseases and dilemmas remain unresolved for so long because we are hostile to them.
Behind the hostility, there is rejection.
The solution to problems, symptoms, illnesses and dilemmas is reconciliation.
The premise of reconciliation is to leave right and wrong and see their function.
Problems, symptoms, and disease function are related to the dynamics of the family system.
Individual behavior is influenced by the behavior of the system.
The present behavior of an individual or system is influenced by the past behavior of the individual and the system.
Individual or systemic behavior is reinforced or maintained when rejected.
"Right" and "wrong" are the causes of human problems.
Humans want to have the right thing to do and keep the right part.
Humans refuse to have wrong behavior, hoping to get rid of the wrong parts.
Reconciliation with "wrong" is the way to eliminate the opposition and conflict between "right" and "wrong".
The growth of individuals is influenced by the family system.
The state of existence embodied in this is the result of the influence of the dynamics of the past system, and the current state of existence will become the dynamic cause of the individual's future existence.
The individual's behavior in the current family system is influenced by the past family system.
Individual problems can be understood, answered and solved from the family system.
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Source: Shen Jiahong" System-Powered Family Therapy Continuous Training Course