It is often said that your future appearance is temporarily hidden in your power.
I really like the saying: there are no shortcuts to survival. When you don't pay for the ideal retreat, but you don't see the ending. This is an extraordinary figure. He didn't have time to argue about survival, and yes, he was a special person. He never complains about survival or makes excuses for his laziness. People who like to complain are you don't have enough self-control.
When you return home on the weekend, you'll meet Xiao Li, a middle school you haven't seen in a long time. Xiao li did not say a word and began to complain about her husband's various behaviors. She said her best friend really had a limousine and lived in a big house. Her best friend hangs out in addition to shopping every day. My husband would pay very little every month and he would understand that it was cheap. When he bought vegetables, he always bargained with the owner of the greengrocer. Sometimes, I even spend a long time making money with other people. "Do you understand? Ashin, I've had enough. ”。 Looking at Xiaoli's contempt for her husband, she smiled and said nothing.
Xiaoli's husband is an honest man. In addition to making less money, Xiao Li also has the benefit of loyalty. I remember Xiaoli often saying in our ear that her husband was very good to her and everyone wanted to know that she was married to a good husband. But for now, less than two years after the end of the game, she began to despise her opponents in every way. In the face of Yu Xiaoli's contempt, her husband just smiled and was still as close to her as ever.
In life, we often encounter people with some negative energy. As soon as we opened our mouths, we were complaining about life. Even those closest to us speak in front of outsiders. What she complained about seemed to be some trivial matters in life and some details of her lover's life. Essentially, she was complaining about herself.
The American spiritual teacher Will Bowen said in his book The World Without Complaints: "The essence of complaining is to gain empathy and attention and stop doing what we dare not do." "An extraordinary man would never complain about survival. Most people complain because they're not outstanding. They often hide your self-control in your words. Instead of complaining, change. When we crave the good fortune of others, we don't see him studying hard in the classical library day and night; jealous of other people's good figure, but I don't know he's sweating profusely in the gym. He is very fond of the actor Hu Ge. He became famous overnight at the age of 23. At the age of 24, he experienced a car accident, disfigurement and a stupor. At the age of 25, he returned to the entertainment industry. At 33, he seems to be more sophisticated and persistent.
Hu Ge said: "Unfortunately, he began to look for one person's life, but watched another person's life disappear; I moved God to save my eyes, but when I experienced glory, I could not claim that my appearance was incomplete. However, the scar was not his fault, but a medal. Many people say that Li Xiaoyao is his peak and he can't go back, and he says that if you can't go back, you might as well fill it with thinking.
Remember Mei Changsu on the list of Langya, who turned out to be another person from Hu Ge. He has experienced desolation, but he may as well remain calm, clear and determined. As Mei Changsu said in the play, "Since you survived, you can't die in vain." ”。 French writer Romain Rolland said: There is only heroism in the world, that is, to maintain respect for survival after seeing the true meaning of survival. You don't have time to tangle. Don't complain about survival all day long. If you don't do your best, how can God take care of you? On the road of life, speed is not important, what is important is endurance. Extraordinary people are often entangled with adoption and can only rush forward desperately. Many things are accurate only through experience
I like the words of the spiritual writer Zederfin: There are only three things in the world: mine, his, and God's. Those who complain about themselves should learn to accept themselves; those who complain about others should try to turn their complaints into begging; those who complain about God, please pray for your ideals, so that your life will have unexpected changes and your life will be better and more complete. Looking ahead to its time, we have all formed a better self, and if you are neither one step earlier nor one step later, you will meet the most special you in its time.