The writer Liu Tong wrote in "Toward that Bright Place":
"The things that can't be done must pass, and the things that can't be put down must be put down."
Turn one page to write another.
After reading the past, there are flowers in the past, and the memories are warm as ever. ”
Indeed, many things are the best to see; if you can't see them, you will eventually have to survive, and don't think that if you can't see them, you won't pass.
Just like love, even if you can't put it down, that person will not come back to love you.
So, when the fate is over, don't dwell on it.
If a person doesn't love you anymore, the best way to deal with it is to let it go.
You can't get back a man who doesn't love you
Someone said:
"It's impolite to knock on an open door all the time, and not replying is a reply in itself."
For a person who has no you in his heart, no matter how active you are, pay more for him;
It was all a distraction in his eyes.
So, don't bother with someone who doesn't have you in mind too often.
Don't be naïve enough to think that the other person will be impressed by you.
Love is a very cruel thing, and not loving is not loving.
The more you try to please someone, the more that person will make you feel pain.
Expecting someone who doesn't love you is the root of all heartache.
Some people, no matter how hard you fight, are just your one-man show.
Some love, no matter how much you go all out, is just a waste of time.
In the adult world, the most important thing is to learn to give up.
For the guy who doesn't love you anymore, all you can do is turn around and leave.
Make yourself a little decent, and leave some decent for those of you.
Letting go is the best stop loss
Miyazaki said:
"Sometimes you have to give up on some people, it's not that you don't care, it's that they don't care;
Unfortunately, it didn't become your exception and preference. ”
I feel like waiting for a person to turn back, waiting for a person to like themselves again.
It's a very painful and powerless thing to do.
So ah, when you call him and he doesn't answer, he doesn't reply to the message;
Just stop waiting silly.
Zhang Xiaoxian said:
"A man's greatest flaw, not selfishness, sentimentality, barbarism, willfulness;
It's paranoid about loving someone who doesn't love himself. ”
Between people, many times pay attention to a 'fate' word.
Some people, no matter how much you do, no matter how dead-hearted, they are also short-lived guests in your life after all.
You have to understand that some people are doomed to be impossible.
Therefore, even if you love and don't give up, you must also wave goodbye with your heart.
Only by truly letting go can we reap our own happiness
Li Zhongsheng sang in "When Love Has Become a Thing of the Past":
"Don't mention the past again, life has been stormy;
Even if the memory cannot be erased, love and hate are still in the heart;
Really break the past, let tomorrow continue well..."
Let the past be like smoke, life can move forward steadily.
The painter Jimmy once said this:
"Don't dwell on one thing for too long, dwell on it for too long,
You're going to be annoyed, you're going to be sore, you're going to get bored, you're going to be upset. ”
In fact, many things, in the end, you are not unable to live with things, but with yourself.
Therefore, no matter how reluctant it is, when it is time to put it down, it should be put down.
Sometimes, letting go is actually a new beginning.
When you wave goodbye to the wrong person, it is possible to meet the person who is really right.
Only when you make room in your heart can you let the other person live in when you meet the right person.
A lifetime is very long, and we always have to accept some people's passing;
Some people have to leave without saying goodbye, and some people have to leave the scene halfway.
The clouds disperse and the fog goes, and the edges come and go; perhaps this is also a kind of providence.
And what we want to firmly believe is:
All misses do not need to be reunited; all endings are for consummation.
May you have the courage to shake off the past, the backbone to cut through thorns, and the courage to love someone again.