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The 58-year-old aunt confessed: 3 times of partnering experience, let me finally understand that "dusk love" is a pit. Here's what's going on, let's take a look.
Aunt Liu, 58 years old
Shortly after I retired, my wife died of illness, and at that time I was not in a hurry to find a wife again, my sister and I participated in many tour groups, and I felt that I had to enjoy a good life in a limited life.
The travel time is always so happy, I have seen a lot of local humanities and folklore, but also seen a lot of nature's magic. During the tour, I also met many friends, including men and women.
There was a man who was three years older than me who had a good conversation with me, and we could say that we were the same at first sight, and then he invited me to travel with me, and I agreed. We helped each other on the tour, and gradually we developed a good feeling for each other, so we went on to live together later.
Originally, I thought about meeting love, but I didn't expect that we broke up in less than three months, because the other party was too selfish, and when I partnered, all the housework was entrusted to me, and the meals were prepared by me.
I endured such a day for three months, and then I felt really tired, so I chose to break up with the other party. Later, when I went to square dancing, I met Old Li, who was two years younger than me, and others were very kind to me, and they spoke funny and humorously, and we often danced together, and soon we were together.
Before the partnership, I think the old Li people are really very good, know how to care about people, and have a gentle temper. But after the partnership, I saw the real face of Old Li, I had more savings than him, and Every time I spent money, Old Li let me pay the bill.
Once in a while it was good, but every time I was asked to pay, I felt that Old Li and I were looking at my money, and I really misread him. Because of the money thing, we quarreled many times, and finally we couldn't communicate a piece, so the two of us broke up.
Later, I met a wife, who was my former colleague, and I still knew a certain amount of him, and we were very compatible when we first started together. He would take the initiative to do housework and would not try my money, but then we broke up, because he was out there behind my back, and I felt that the two of them had to be loyal, so I broke up with him.
3 times of partnering experience, let me finally understand, "dusk love" is a pit, originally thought that you can find a man who is really good to himself, did not think that they are not reliable, now I choose a person to come, do not dare to go to find a wife again.
epilogue:
Twilight love is not all beautiful, the old man to find a wife is a big deal, must be taken seriously, can not learn young people on a whim to be together. In order to find a suitable partner, you should understand the character and personality of the other party, find a wife can not be too hasty, nor can it be impulsive, only in this way can the old man partner for a long time.