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Politeness in the elevator

author:The family education instructor had something to say

The scene of life is reproduced: as soon as the elevator door opens, the aunt downstairs comes in, and the kindergarten children timidly hide behind their parents. While greeting warmly, the parents moved their bodies to leak out the child's face and ordered the child: "Ask the aunt well!" ”

The child continues to hide behind the parents, and the parents at this time are very faceless. Parents say, "Hey! This child, really rude, has taught you how many times, is not obedient. "There was an awkward atmosphere in the elevator.

Situation analysis: Children will feel nervous and afraid when they see unfamiliar people, and they are unwilling to greet strangers, which is a common human feeling. At this time, parents suddenly labeled their children with two labels: one is rude; the other is disobedient. At this time, the child will deepen the understanding of his own impoliteness and disobedience.

Solution one: Parents squeeze the child's hand or hug the child, and say to the child: "This is our downstairs, your aunt, you are not familiar with the aunt, will slowly become familiar with it later, you don't have to be nervous, you are a brave baby!" Auntie is home, let's say goodbye to Auntie okay? The elevator door opened and the aunt said, "Goodbye!" The child will also say, "Goodbye!" ”

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