I always have this passage in my phone memo

My ideal love is not to make friends, not everyone can, if you can't wait for that person, then how to be lonely, will be lonely may be more terrible, I still have time, so, wait for you.

I've always felt that the answers to many questions are the right answers, like, when you were young, someone would ask you, do you want to find someone you like to be with when you grow up, or do you want to find someone you like yourself?

I think the answer we give first is that we like someone we like.

In these early 20s, we have no way to determine who we will end up with, so since we are not sure, why should we try to be with the person we like, maybe he also likes you.

I especially like haruki Murakami's saying: Where there are people who like to be lonely, but they don't like disappointment.

When I was single, I always advised myself that if it was really because I was lonely and associated with a person, it was definitely not love, and I could not compromise with myself because no one chatted with me, no one accompanied me to the supermarket, and no one accompanied me to dinner.

The loneliness of one person is not terrible, the terrible thing is that two people are still lonely.

Really, a lifetime is too long, and being with the wrong people is more terrifying than loneliness.

In love, you can dislike it, but you can't.