My father graduated from high school, served in the township, resumed the college entrance examination after participating in two unsuccessful, according to his own study is very good, but at home farming for two years delayed, the college entrance examination failed, the first year wanted to be a soldier, the result was replaced by the villager committee people, promised to let him go the next year, and then the bank recruited people, recommended him to go, but when he stayed, it was also in crisis, fortunately, he knew the leader of a town at work, he said two sentences for him to stay, and then sighed, became a person, everything had someone tripping, The slightest difference in the pool will not be achieved. Father's step out, at the time did not feel too good, because the bank was not a very good job at that time, now it seems that it is a big step up. Father brothers four, the youngest. In the countryside, it is also a relatively tense family, the second uncle sells cloth, the third uncle is in the supply and marketing cooperative, when the primary school, the family still has land, and also needs to harvest wheat and grow wheat, and later after the mother's household registration is transferred, there is no land.
My mother graduated from elementary school, an ordinary worker, why can I come out to work, because there is a relative who is a leader in a supply and marketing cooperative, so my aunt and uncle are the same, but later they are all laid off. My grandmother died early, my brother-in-law did not remember what my grandmother looked like, my mother pulled my younger brothers and sisters to grow up, my grandfather was determined not to let my mother go to school, my mother hated my grandfather for a lifetime, and later had the opportunity to work, which was also a big step in life. Those who came out of the countryside can now live, and the second aunt and third aunt who did not come out have already passed away.
The mother was three years older than the father, the unit was next to a street, the mother's family was extremely poor, and the father was very thin and average- At that time, the two people were considered to have the same conditions, and after being introduced, they were married after a lot of entanglement, and when they got married at an older age, they only had me in their thirties, which was relatively rare in that era. After getting married, my father only got a set of East Wing in his hometown, and there was a 3,000 yuan building fund. My mother has always been angry. In 1998, he resolutely returned to his hometown and spent 30,000 to build a large house, which is still vacant. To this day, when my mother returned to her hometown, she met someone who introduced my mother, and she would say, this is who is who, the one who lives in the box house. My mother would say, you didn't see that the biggest house in the center of the village is our family? At that time, in order to build this house, my grandfather also had a fire, which led to the death of an illness. In the summer of 20 years, a tornado blew in the village, scraping off the western tiles of this house, and I don't know what the signs were.
Sometimes idle, and parents to talk about their past stories, can't help but sigh, China's society, the first bucket of gold and the first bucket of gold are the most difficult, to put it bluntly, is there anyone to pull you, your way up on the way to no one to stop you, in the era of not resuming the college entrance examination, the words of people who hold power, change is your destiny.
This also reflects why many people want chicken babies, why should they be anxious, we have fear and worry in our bones, and we also understand that we are strong in order not to be swayed.
The same reason why many people want to go abroad, to send their children abroad, is for the so-called freedom.
Some leaders lament that it is difficult to bring after 90 and 00, because people choose more, your PUA is not good, after 80, stay up.