Liu Bang was meritocratic and good at listening to the opinions of others, and eventually created the foundation of the Han Dynasty for hundreds of years; Xiang Yu was self-conscious and did not listen to the words of the strategist Fan Zeng, and as a result, he ended up with an embattled end and Wu Jiang committing suicide. Arrogance and self-esteem often lead us to the wrong path, and learning to listen can make us successful.
"The sages of the ancients will have a teacher." We must first learn to listen to the teacher's teachings. Yi Qiu is a national Go player, and one of his two students is dedicated, but Yi Qiu listens; The other, however, thought that a great bird was coming, and wanted to shoot swans with a bow and arrow. Two people learn in the same environment, but the level of Go is superior. This is not because of differences in their intelligence, but because the former listens carefully to the teacher's teachings, while the latter takes the teacher's words seriously, focuses on his own world, and natural learning is nothing. When we study in the classroom, we should also concentrate and listen carefully to the lectures, and we should not be like the learner who wants to shoot swans, absent-minded and learning nothing.
Learn to listen to your teacher and let your rich knowledge contribute to your life. Our parents and loved ones love us deeply, and we should also learn to listen to their advice.
Zhao Kuo in the Warring States period, familiar with military books, but lack of battlefield experience, when the King of Zhao abandoned the famous general Lian Po and used him, his mother repeatedly dissuaded him not to go to the battlefield, he was bent on going his own way, proud of the enemy, and finally defeated in the Changping War, Zhao Guo's 400,000 soldiers were killed by pits Don't think your parents are nagging, they see a long-term perspective than you, and they know your strengths and weaknesses better than others.
Learn to listen to your parents and let the experience of your elders escort your life. Finally, we should also pay attention to the guidance of friends.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Lü Meng, a general of the State of Wu, was reluctant to study on the grounds that there were many affairs in the military, and after many persuasions by Sun Quan, he began to study, and finally achieved a good story of "three days of farewell, that is, more impressive". Those who are willing to point out your shortcomings and urge you to keep improving are the friends you really should make.
Learn to listen to your friends and let kind advice add to your self-improvement.
Let the words of the teacher become the nourishment for your growth, let the words of your parents become the beacon of your guidance, and let the words of your friends become the ladder of your progress - learn to listen, so that you can bloom the most beautiful posture on the stage of life!
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