Behind every major decision, there are countless ideological struggles and an untouchable wound!
This is a true story that happened to me!
My sister, a good buddy, is cheerful and optimistic by nature; his brother-in-law is a medical representative, forty-seven or eight years old, with a straightforward and sociable personality, and the relationship between the two is particularly good. The other day, my colleague's brother-in-law suddenly fell ill and went to the hospital for emergency rescue. After examination, it was found that the heart vessels had been blocked by more than 90% and severe heart failure, and the doctor recommended that the stent be done immediately, and told that because of the severe heart failure, it would become half a vegetative person after the operation. My colleague's sister asked for immediate surgery, but his brother-in-law refused, saying, "I don't want to live a life without quality!" ”
My colleague did not elaborate on the details of the communication between the couple, but only said the final result: her sister personally unplugged the tube inserted in his brother-in-law!
I don't want to live a life without quality! This sentence is too rigid and too heavy, and the decision made may be right, but it is too helpless and too cruel!
Is the decision of a colleague's sister to pull out the tube herself right or wrong? The moment she reached out to extubate, it was the separation of life and death, and people who did not have this experience at that time could never feel or imagine.
When you think in your shoes, there is no absolute right and wrong, and even right and wrong are not important. From different perspectives, what may be right is wrong, and what is wrong may also be right! Accidents and tomorrow do not know which comes first, what we can do is to cherish the present, cherish the people around us, do our best, go with the flow, if one day need to make a decision, do not regret it!