A few days ago, Rainie Yang posted a photo of wearing a wedding dress and holding a bouquet of flowers on a social network, and rainie Yang looked happy in the photo.
As soon as this photo was posted on the Internet, Rainie Yang's fans were all boiling with blood.
Just when everyone thought that Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao secretly held a wedding, careful netizens found that this was just a work photo in the variety show "Shining Band".
However, although the wedding photos are fake, the momentum has risen, and Rainie Yang's fans have begun to coax.
They are all telling Li Ronghao to hurry up and hold a wedding for Rainie Yang, saying that they are looking forward to Rainie Yang really wearing a wedding dress.
Although Li Ronghao and Rainie Yang officially announced their marriage in 2019, the two people have been separated from each other since they were married.
Each of them was doing their own work, and the wedding was not held.
The longest time I have not seen each other for almost a year, so I have lived the life of a long-distance couple.
Although they themselves feel that there is nothing wrong with such a marriage, their respective fans are always worried about them.
There is even a topic established on the Internet: "Did Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao meet today?" ”
Fans are anxious, the reporter will help fans to be a messenger, and every interview asks Rainie Yang when she can see Li Ronghao?
But Rainie Yang herself was not so anxious to eat melon, and said calmly: "It is possible that next year, the main reason is that the time slot of the work of the two sides is not in line." ”
In order to work, even the spouse can not be seen, many people wonder, is the marriage of two people just an empty shell?
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Work is more important than marriage
For Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao, there is a reason why work is more important than family.
Li Ronghao had a very difficult experience before becoming a star.
Li Ronghao, who dropped out of school in his second year of junior high school, also had a very serious car accident at the age of 20.
After a hard recovery, Li Ronghao had just been discharged from the hospital and suffered the pain of his father's leukemia and death.
The loss of his father is already the most painful in the world, and his father's departure has left Li Ronghao with a huge amount of arrears.
In order to pay off his debts, Li Ronghao took his mother to Beijing to earn money, desperately writing songs, working several jobs, and trying to change his life.
But after all, Beijing is full of talents, and Li Ronghao was rejected by the academy because his image did not meet the conditions.
Later, in order to get ahead, Li Ronghao himself learned eighteen martial arts.
From writing lyrics to arranging music to instruments, all of which were originally required for multiple people to work together, can now create a song by themselves.
After practicing a martial art, he participated in the variety show "I Am a Singer" to make his own name.
For Rainie Yang, her road to fame is also not easy, rainie Yang has worked hard since she was a child because of the tens of millions of debts left by her father.
In order to have the opportunity to help her family, Rainie Yang participated in various competitions, repeatedly defeated, repeatedly defeated.
It was hard to stand out from a certain competition, but it didn't take long for singing and dancing to be ignored.
After that, he turned to show business and gradually became known to the audience by filming idol dramas.
At that time, when I met Ariel Lin, who was also in debt from my family, I would ask each other: "How much money does your family still owe?" ”
Both people have been poor, broken, and not easy to become famous, so they especially cherish each other's work and cherish each other's achievements.
Some couples can be in long-distance relationships for a long time and still maintain trust in each other.
Because they know each other as much as they know themselves, they know that some things need to be traded off, and some things need to be let go.
Because they are the same people, they will have more empathy, and this resonance is the core of supporting them for a long time.
With this core, even if it is different, two people will work together.
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Long-distance relationship model
Although the two people are not in the same city, the relationship between Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao has become a model representative of long-distance love.
When Rainie Yang opens the concert, Li Ronghao will support her remotely, accompany her to sing together, and try his best to accompany her.
Unable to meet, Li Ronghao sent Rainie Yang a lot of gifts so that the other party could feel the heart.
So that even if she can't see anyone, she can feel her company when she sees the house full of gifts.
Rainie Yang also said on social platforms from time to time that she missed the dishes that Li Ronghao once cooked for her.
Not only praise each other's ability, but also praise each other's cooking is delicious.
And Li Ronghao also likes to confess to Rainie Yang in public.
Once in the concert, when Rainie Yang was still performing, he hugged her in public and kissed it, causing Rainie Yang to cover her face and be shy in front of the audience.
After singing, she still felt that it was not enough, and confessed to Rainie Yang in public in front of the fans: "She knows what I am thinking, because she is Rainie Yang." ”
Although two people are often in long-distance relationships, watching their daily interactions is sweeter than many couples.
Although we can't meet often, because we feel sorry for each other and appreciate each other, even if we don't meet, we think of each other and work hard for each other's ideals.
Do not ask the other party to change for their own sake, but also respect each other's dreams and pursuits.
This kind of mutual understanding of love seems to be the best medicine to alleviate the pain of long-distance love.
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What you need to know in marriage
In addition to mutual appreciation, Rainie Yang is not the kind of love brain that is overwhelmed by love.
Love is love, but love is very sober.
Rainie Yang will not blindly ask the other party for endless companionship and pampering, she understands very clearly:
"Marriage is a bet, and the state of both men and women before and after marriage will change."
In addition to having a clear view of marriage, Rainie Yang is also very able to find the advantages of the other party.
On the show, Zhou Xun also asked Rainie Yang: "What do you like about Li Ronghao?" ”
Rainie Yang said: "Li Ronghao is very responsible, very careful, and long-distance, both sides have a lot of efforts and trade-offs. ”
Of course, in addition to reducing expectations for marriage and discovering advantages, Li Ronghao also understands and respects Rainie Yang very much.
Li Ronghao will not use children or families to tie up Rainie Yang, but is more supportive of her career than anyone.
When I was a mentor in a music variety show, even if someone heard Rainie Yang's song very politely said to Li Ronghao: "This is my sister-in-law's song."
Li Ronghao will also very politely justify Rainie Yang's name, which is the song of singer Rainie Yang.
Perhaps the correct view of marriage and love is exactly this, and both people have the right attitude towards love and marriage.
Do not force the other party to be wronged because they are in love with themselves, and support the other party to continue to move forward for the sake of their musical dreams.
Be able to see the advantages of the other party to give encouragement, but also to support the other party, so that the other party's achievements are seen by others.
Such mutual achievements, even if the distance is far away, can not be separated from the hearts of two people.
Author | Yu Bing graduated from Beijing Normal University majoring in finance, has been engaged in the financial industry, and then transferred to the media industry for 3 years, a domestic and foreign film and television analysis researcher, good at thinking about life from watching dramas, as well as exploring realistic emotional values from the current situation of women's existence at home and abroad, deeply inspiring many women to marry and self-improvement.