A semi-acquainted friend from March 19, 2021 to the present, almost every day in the circle, are painful, missed, crazy, regret of the text, look at it with the heart, she must have encountered a painful thing. On April 17, I chatted with my girlfriend and learned the truth: my son was in love, the family did not agree, and the medicine was gone.
The media also often reports on suicides committed by young people, ending their lives prematurely for various reasons.
In addition to regret, I can't help but feel sad that they gave up their lives, too irresponsible.
Lucette said: Life cannot be twice, but many people are not good at even once.
Cherishing life and respecting life will be the subject of our life. In a sense, it's harder to live than to die. To die requires only a moment of courage, to live, but to need the courage of a lifetime.
First, Fugui has thousands of reasons to die, but he insists on living. To stay alive is to have the greatest respect for life.
Fugui is the protagonist of the famous writer Yu Hua's novel "Alive", and his life is bumpy and painful.
A bitterness: Xu Fugui did not understand things when he was young, gambled and prostituted, lost the family property, and his father died of anger.
Second suffering: On the way to catch medicine for his mother, he was arrested by the Kuomintang and was able to return to his hometown.
Three Sufferings: Experiencing the Three Anti-Five Anti-Great Leap Forward, the days were bleak.
Four sufferings: The son Youqing gave a blood transfusion to the county magistrate's wife, drew too much blood, and was drawn alive to death.
Five sufferings: the daughter gave birth to a child and hemorrhaged, and died in childbirth.
Six Sufferings: The wife and family treasure lost their children and died in pain
Seven sufferings: The son-in-law died in an accident at the construction site
Eight bitterness: The grandson bitter root beans ate too much to survive.
The 8 sufferings that Fugui experienced, whichever one you take out, is enough to make people lose the courage to live, because there is no head, no motivation to live.
In a way, his early death may be a relief. Why is Fugui still strong and alive after so many intensive and cruel life blows?
It is Fugui's boundless endurance tempered in life, and the huge endurance to pain. These support fugui, no matter how painful the torture, Fugui can dissolve it in his own patience.
Fugui said, "It is better to be a normal person, to fight for this and that, to fight for their own lives." Like me, it is said that the more chaotic it is, the more it is not out of breath, but the life expectancy is long, and the people I know die one by one, and I am still alive.
There is an old Chinese saying that "the only death that is difficult in the ages", but in many cases, choosing to live is indeed more difficult than choosing to die, because living requires extraordinary endurance and endurance.
Raymond has a thousand reasons to live, but he pursues death. Desperate to die is the highest interpretation of the freedom of life.
Raymond is the protagonist of the Spanish film Deep Sleep, based on the true story of Raymond Sandero, which tells the story of his 30-year struggle for the solemn right to end his life.
Raymond had an accident during a sea jumping exercise, intact above the neck, no intuition below the neck, and paraplegia.
The saddest thing is that he is clear-headed, has a mind, has a soul, and before the accident was a handsome, strong, and life-loving young man.
Raymond desperately wanted to die, because of what?
Lost faith in life, no spiritual support. No, he was positive and optimistic, writing poetry with his mouth and pen, and his love of life.
Lack of soul mate. No, julia, a terminally ill lawyer, slowly agreed with his view of the freedom of life in the process of getting along with Raymond, and the two felt sorry for each other. After Julia promised to help Raymond publish a collection of poems, she died with him.
Lack of the moisture of love. No, the young woman Rosa knew of Raymond's experience, urged him not to give up his life, and fell deeply in love with this unfortunate man.
No loved ones to take care of. No, his brother and sister-in-law cared for him meticulously, and Raymond was infinitely grateful.
What is it? A classic clip from the movie gave me the answer.
Raymond fantasized about himself getting up, opening the window, and flying all the way over the beautiful lake, the continuous woods, flying to the seashore, meeting Julia, and kissing her on the big seashore.
This clip vividly expresses Raymond's love of life, his desire for freedom, and his surging emotions for Julia.
At this point, I understood that Raymond's desperate death was not to lose hope in life, but precisely to love life too much, to love life too much.
Chernyshevsky said:
If human activity is not inspired by ideals, it will become empty and small.
He has been pursuing death from beginning to end, insisting that survival is free and death is free. The concept of death was reversed, no longer gray and incompetent, sad and fearful.
Raymond regarded death as a great ideal, beautiful, and free. It seems to be escaping from life and giving up life, but in fact, it is the best proof that he loves life incomparably.
At the end of the film, Raymond is euthanized with the help of a friend. He and his friends celebrated and took pictures like everyday gatherings. Finally, he said to the camera: "I think life is a right, not an obligation. "Death is new life for Raymond, a freedom and dignity.
epilogue:
Man lives for life itself, not for anything outside of life. Man also dies for life itself, not for anything other than life.
Therefore, no matter how painful life is, we must live for life itself and make the right choice that conforms to the law of life. This is everyone's responsibility and our commitment to life.