Predicting obstacles in advance will avoid obstacles, if you already know what things not to tangle, you must check yourself and correct yourself, and strive to change what you have.
First, do not dwell on the length of life
The length of the tangled life does not play the slightest role in the life span, and even if it does, it is most likely a reaction force. Life is an encounter from birth to death, life is not decided by us, death is still not determined by us, and the actions of conditioning the body and conditioning the mentality cannot prevent the coming of death, but can only increase the probability of postponing the arrival of death. Instead of dwelling on the length of life, it is better to live in the present seriously, effectively increasing the thickness of the rest of life and effectively expanding the width of the rest of life. From the moment we are born, life begins to count down, so the more we go to the back, the more precious time is, and the last time is to live into a better year, and it is futile to tangle with the length of life, not only to no avail, but also to pass.
Second, don't get tangled up in being a good group or being alone
Being gregarious or alone varies from person to person, some people like to be gregarious, while some people like to be alone. Everyone is inherently different from everyone, so adapt to their own needs. Don't blindly imitate, and don't reject for the sake of exclusion, whether it is social or solitary, as long as you make yourself feel happy is the best way to live. Since being a human being is not to live in the eyes of others, it is necessary to live out of the self, in order to conform to the eyes of others, resulting in the loss of self, even if others look good, it is difficult to produce real happiness in their own hearts. People need to retain just the right personality to live in the world, and on the basis of not harming others and not endangering themselves, it is understandable to grasp the heat of being gregarious or alone.
Third, don't dwell on what to do if you lose your basic self-care ability
Life can not take care of itself is a small probability event, so there is no need to worry much, just need to have a proper sense of worry is the so-called peace of mind, so do not think repeatedly and do not think back and forth. Life is not blindly optimistic at the same time, as well as do not be extremely pessimistic, in the daily life should come in the end will come, should go to the end of the day can not be retained in any way, since the seven points rely on hard work, but also to use the way of physical and mental homophony to practice things in man-made, the other three points of heaven are destined to resign themselves to fate, physical practice with the perfect way to find out the deficiency, and strive to maximize the probability of the ship to the bridge, in short, to do their personnel, know the destiny.
Conclusion: Entanglement is internal friction, too much entanglement will lead to exhaustion, even if you do not do physical work will feel very tired, entanglement is both useless work and will increase the mental burden.
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