People trapped in time

Once thought that the wife retired, the daughter is also married, the granddaughter is going to preschool, we should both completely rest and relax, although these decades, whether it is business travel or tourism, we do have more opportunities than many people to go out, but think about if there is no accident, the time and opportunity left for themselves to travel alone is not very much.

Two years ago, we were ready to go to Hainan for the winter, what kind of mutton, the courier fee alone cost hundreds. My sister lent us the house in Chengmai, Hainan. But we only stayed nineteen days back and forth, more than eighty years old mother-in-law had a foreign body on the tongue moss and needed surgery, we did not dare to stay for a moment, sent out a refrigerator full of things, and bought a ticket to return on the same day.

In the past two years, the impact of the epidemic has not dared to go anywhere, and occasionally once or twice to go to the north and south of Xinjiang, it is also a hurry.

My father is 92 years old this year, and although he can live on his own and go out freely, he does not want his children to leave the city. In the winter of this year, my eldest sister and brother-in-law went to Hainan, and they have been the same for all these years, the granddaughters around them have to go to school, the grandchildren have to go to kindergarten, the daughters and sons-in-law are in the public security system, sometimes they can't even see the shadows for a month, and all the things that take care of the grandchildren all fall on them. Seeing that the granddaughter has been admitted to the Inner High School this year, the grandson has also gone to primary school, and the second daughter has brought her one-year-old granddaughter from Xi'an. If you take your little granddaughter with you in the winter in Xinjiang, you can only hide at home, think about it, give your old father a leave of absence, take your little daughter and granddaughter with you, and go to Hainan, and carry the mission and responsibility to Hainan.

We usually do not bring granddaughters, and on weekends we always have to stretch out our hands and let our granddaughters come, so that the children can relax, and in recent months, our daughter's body has always been in some condition and uncomfortable, so don't say that you are far away, and the close place is also careful. We weren't there when they needed help.

Some people say I can't put it down. Yes, we only have one daughter, for more than thirty years our efforts have become a habit, how the future we can not predict, as long as we are in, do our best, otherwise how dare we say that we really love her. One day, I can't do it and put it down.

Taking a child into this world was originally because I loved her, not because I let society beat her, and I didn't want to be a debt collector in the name of my parents, I just wanted to accompany her quietly, so that she could feel warm and feel warm in life, and felt that the world was worth it! I think that parents will only care about whether she is tired or not, whether she is comfortable, and whether she is successful or not in the secular sense, how much money she earns is not worth mentioning.

Even if I am stuck in time, as long as she is well, I will be satisfied.

I write on my phone, think of what to write, if there are viewers, forgive me.