Why don't you love me?

Now no matter what drama, you have to add some emotional lines and tell some love stories.

Why? Because the audience loves it! Even more because love is human nature!

If you want the audience to like, it must resonate, and the more people who resonate, the better, then throughout the picture, only love can resonate with everyone the most. It's nothing to write about love, but almost all screenwriters can't escape the questioning of one of the lovers' legs, and the other side hysterically asking "Why don't you love me, love TA?" " plot.

I didn't think there was anything wrong with such a plot before, but I recently watched Liu Run's "Underlying Logic", which talked about the more interesting thing about the "why + point of view" question method.

The "why + opinion" questioning is called "injectable brainwashing."

This way of asking questions can easily draw people's attention unconsciously to find a reason for this idea, while ignoring whether the idea itself is correct. When we start looking for reasons for this idea, the idea has already been "injected" into our brains.

Like what:

Why are chefs fat?

Our first reaction was because the chef was especially good at cooking... By the time we started looking for the reason, the idea that the chef was fat had been injected into our brains, and we had forgotten to think that there seemed to be no necessary connection between occupation and fatness.

Why do I feel like so-and-so has been targeting you lately?

The first reaction of the person asked will be to consider whether I have offended so-and-so somewhere, or say no, but then pay special attention to so-and-so's attitude towards himself. Then maybe after that, a very small, very normal thing will be understood by you as so-and-so targeting yourself. In fact, when the other party asks this question, why the latter point of view has been injected into your brain, manipulating your behavior and thinking.

It is not difficult to find that it seems that the "why + opinion" questioning method seems to be a bit interesting. Then this depends on what kind of people use it, and in what kind of environment?

Cunning people will use this way of asking questions to achieve their own goals and manipulate others. For example, why do I feel that so-and-so has been targeting you lately? Used to provoke relationships with others.

Ignorant people inject themselves with brainwashed views. For example, why am I so stupid? Why am I so ugly? Then draw the dungeon as a prison to trap yourself inside.

Smart people will suddenly learn how to avoid such questions, so as not to fall into the trap of others. For example, someone asked why Jun A looked stupid?

The reaction of smart people: first deny that A Jun is not stupid - and then give an example to prove - then explain that everyone has their own good and bad at what they are not good at, and can not use what others are good at to compare what A Jun is not good at - and finally say their own judgment: I think A Jun is very smart, what do you think? In the end, it is possible that you will find that the person who asked the question was counter-routine by you, and you also successfully injected him with your point of view!

Some people may say, then I have to learn hard and go to inject others later!

Then I have to advise you: be careful!

As the saying goes, the devil is one foot tall, the devil is tall, there are people who are smarter than us, be careful and smart, but are mistaken by smart, and in the end, the gains are not worth the losses.

If you can keep your original intention and be yourself firmly in life, I believe that your life will always be fragrant all the way.

When you question, ask your partner "Why don't you love me?" At the time of this sentence, the idea of "you don't love me" has already been injected into the other person's brain, and of course, it has also been injected into your own brain. So you become more and more distrustful of each other, arguing, questioning, and repeating until the relationship breaks down.

Maybe in the beginning, the other party did not love you. It's just that when you pass the "don't love me" signal to the other party, the other party seems to be able to feel at ease not to love you, and finally really does not love you.

The most ridiculous thing about the whole thing is that the other party doesn't have to defend themselves. Yes, he will have no guilt, because he just listened to you and did what you wanted.

And you, still trapped in love and grieving.

[Author: Xiao Wu (WeChat public account: Nian Xiao Wu), a writer who wanders shanghai and does not play cards according to the routine. 】