1. Love yourself before you love your lover
Whoever is too enthusiastic about it increases the probability of not being cherished.
Falling in love with all of yourself, this is not narcissism, but acceptance, accepting the less perfect self, and striving to be a more open, better, warmer person.
2) Don't think that if he loves you, he won't leave you
Under your repeated hurts, he will also leave, because you do not know how to cherish, do not deserve his love. And even if you don't do anything wrong, sometimes he will leave suddenly.
Don't be considerate of being afraid to leave each other. Understanding is because of love, not because of fear. The person who makes you afraid to leave is not a lover, even if you pay more, the person who wants to leave will eventually leave.
And you yourself must always remind yourself: you must have the strength and courage to leave the other party at any time.
3, can love, but do not love
Love is selfish, a person who loves you deeply, how can he be willing to give you to others, you can choose what you love, you can also choose you to be loved, don't be too abusive. Otherwise, in the end, it will not only hurt others, but also hurt yourself.
4, do not feel that there will be love without understanding
When we don't understand, we just like it, we can't reach love. When each other's shortcomings are exposed, many times this liking will also end.
Love is tolerance, loving everything about each other. Fall in love with someone you don't understand, and perhaps, you only love his novelty.
5, only you know whether it is appropriate or not
Falling in love is a matter for the two of you, don't ask the people around you if you are suitable, want to know if it is suitable or not, ask yourself first.
Ask your laughter and tears, have been making you cry, the conditions can not be good. What keeps you laughing, even if it's hard, is worth it. I'd rather laugh and suffer than cry and enjoy.
6, do not say something too radical because of the impulse
No one wants to exchange enthusiasm for indifference, thoughtfulness for hurt. Impulsive words may have broken his heart.
Nailing a nail is easy, but pulling it up, can you fix the hole in the fence? If you have already said it, then please apologize and use your gentleness to try to make up for it, but whether it is useful or not is not certain.
7, do not deceive
For those you love, don't cheat. Remember, if you don't lie to him for a lifetime, then tell him the truth. When lies are repeatedly debunked, it's possible that it's all over.
For people you don't love, don't cheat. Don't give any hope to someone you don't love. The greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.
Maybe you just like the feeling of being loved, but when the disappointment comes, you may be disgusted by the other party because of your greed.
8, do not think that appearance will become a big obstacle
60 years later, is there anyone who can be free of wrinkles and gray hair? Who can not be old, not short?
Maybe you don't have looks, but you have talent. Maybe you don't have talent, but you're gentle. Maybe you don't have tenderness, but you....
Maybe you have nothing, but maybe he's in love with your ordinary.
9, do not easily make promises
Promises that cannot be done are more abhorrent than promises that are not made. Maybe many men and women like the blank checks, but when you find that each one can't be cashed, will you still love this liar?
10. If it is not suitable, please choose to let go
Some people are suitable for you but do not love, some people you love but are not suitable, friendship can not be forced, love can not be forced.
If you are not sincere with each other, choose to let go, do not let yourself hurt, and do not hurt others.
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