"Tropical Rain" forbidden love is insulted to reveal the truth behind the marriage of middle-aged women?
"Tropical Rain" is the sensitive theme of Director Chen Zheyi's realistic family - forbidden love, and because of this, people's subjective consciousness of it stays at the level of the surface of the taboo, but what impacts me more is the truth after the taboo?
Depressed, damp, stupid, bland real life cycle after cycle of life scenes in Ah Ling's calm mood step by step.
Ah Ling, a forty-year-old Chinese teacher.
Middle-aged women, exactly what kind of unknown suffering, director Chen Zheyi with Ah Ling's life experience to expose.
I've always been convinced that art comes from life and that film is just the tip of the iceberg of life.
There is no epitome of life, even if the director has superhuman shooting skills, unique casting, funds in place and other factors, he cannot depict the points that resonate with people, often the gray and dark areas of life, the most thought-provoking, but also the most able to attack human nature.
I vaguely remember that some time ago, I saw an article that talked about the 62-year-old Yang Liping's childlessness and childlessness was the biggest failure in her life, causing different voices among the people, some agreeing, some vigorously opposing this view, in general, it is a variety of opinions.
This reminds me of Ah Ling in the movie, saying that the final shining point of the movie is that Ah Ling's life has also been sublimated, but what I see is the long process of sublimation, which is shrouded in darkness.
The awakening of middle age in exchange for the good time of the first half of life, is such an act worth it?
What bothered Ah Ling in the first half of her life was the child, married to her husband for many years, tried many times without results, and then the two took the artificial method, and took the road of artificial incestation, Ah Ling walked for eight years.
The use of children as a bond to marriage or the consolidation of marriage, such a marriage is more or less sad, and seriously, a failure. But many people may not have understood marriage, and they will want to pass such a seemingly shortcut path, but it is actually a dead end.
On the road of seeking a son, Ah Ling ignored a lot of the first emotions of people, and was suppressed by life everywhere, and while pitying Ah Ling, it was more sad for her.
Eight years of cirrection, ovulation injections, just to want a child.
The reason why Ah Ling is so eager to have a child is three reasons: the environment she is in oppresses her to have offspring, she likes children herself, and she wants children to maintain this marriage in name only.
The first half of Ah Ling's life was a tragedy, a tragedy for many ordinary families, and a tragedy for society. What marriage can bring to women is a question worth pondering.
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Ah Ling is a high school Chinese teacher in Singapore, and Chinese seems so dispensable, which is her undisspected profession. But even if the profession is not valued, Ah Ling teaches rain or shine.
In the teaching of poor students, she has also achieved different efforts in the same profession, and has given poor students make up lessons for free.
In addition to Guo Weilun, among these poor students who made up for Ah Ling's class, Ah Ling, as a teacher, did not get the respect she deserved, and even among her peers, she was not respected.
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In the family, Ah Ling plays different roles, one will be a wife, the other will be a caretaker, and the cycle of days will advance with the plot of the movie.
The husband's father is an old man who has been paralyzed for many years and cannot take care of himself, although he has enough support in life to hire an aunt to take care of his father-in-law, but the money for hiring and caring has never reached the time to be able to complete a day. Therefore, after a busy day, the tired body must continue to feed the elderly, scrub the body, clean up the excrement and other chores.
It is such a day, Ah Ling does not know how many years of doing, physically and mentally exhausted, still have to bear the other voices of the family, which is more of a collapsing reality.
Under the pressure of high-intensity life, Ah Ling, gossip is to crush Ah Ling's psychological defense line. We all know that there is no shortage of people in the world who judge others, a small thing that is over-screened by their mouths and delivered to people's ears with a sour and mean taste.
Although everyone does not talk about other people's capital behind their backs, there is no cost to talking about others.
Therefore, the most important thing in this world is the crowd that gossips about others.
When Ah Ling went to attend the birthday of her husband's sister-in-law's child, Ah Ling's husband, because he was childless and childless, could not stand the gossip of the family, so he did not even attend the birthday of his sister-in-law's child, but let Ah Ling face the ugly faces of those women alone.
There is a scene in the movie that goes like this: Ah Ling holds the newborn child, and after a while, the child cries loudly, and the whole room spreads with the child's crying, which is also mixed with the words, "She has never given birth to a child, so she can't hold it".
What exactly does marriage bring?
So the hundred causes will have results, laying the groundwork for forbidden love.
The appearance of Guo Weilun, a poor student, added a bright color to Ah Ling's bleak life.
The age of the hormones and his teacher had a different collision, Guo Weilun slowly paid attention to his teacher, that is, Ah Ling, at first secretly shooting, to slowly let the teacher send home, to sneak into the teacher's family, and further have different feelings with Ah Ling.
Perhaps Ah Ling lacks the warmth of her husband for many years, the emergence of Guo Weilun makes up for the sense of emptiness, or perhaps Guo Weilun also fills in the identity of the child.
The three of them sit together to eat, the paralyzed father-in-law in a wheelchair teaches Wei Lun how to write Chinese with his fingers, and Ah Ling is cleaning up the housework, which reveals a kind of atmosphere as if the three people are a family.
The biggest key reason is that Ah Ling's husband is cheating and has a new family. That's how this forbidden love happened.
This forbidden love in addition to the only temporary passion that can bring her, nothing else, more is full of her morality and ethics, or Ah Ling may know that just out of an abyss, spent most of her life, she does not want to step into the second abyss, so this forbidden love will also be hastily scattered with the death of her father-in-law.
At the father-in-law's funeral, the husband brought Xiao San and the child to the funeral site in a dignified manner.
The death of her father-in-law seems to have also made Ah Ling understand that her husband kept this real marriage just to let her take care of such a life, and the appearance of Xiao San also completely meant that Ah Ling was completely replaced.
Career suspension, marriage collapse, etc., in the eyes of her husband, Ah Ling is just the one who is needed, she can't get warmth, only painless pay.
This was the first half of Ah Ling's sad life.
Movies are not life, but movies come from life.
Perhaps such a realistic theme can be called a female work, and what can such a broken marriage bring to women? Needed? The answer is not over, there is nothing, only an endless gray life, no hope, even a repressed life.
Women are a living individual, not needed to exist in marriage, independent beauty and other words are worthy of women's synonyms.
The reason why every movie is worth pondering is not only to stay in the impact of the film at that time, but also to connect with itself, to life, because such scenes abound, where we can't see, there are countless ah lings alive.
Originality is not easy, plagiarism must be investigated.
The figure comes from the network, and the invasion must be deleted