#影视杂谈 #
如果女儿是爸爸上辈子的情人，那儿子大概率就是爸爸上辈子的仇人了。
Regarding the relationship between father and son in ancient and modern China and abroad are like a problem that cannot be overcome, obviously the boy's body is flowing with the blood of his old son, obviously using the same set of genetic systems, but why do the two people in the world who are most similar in the world fully embody the characteristics of "same-sex repulsion" from the body to the soul, as long as they stay together in a space within one meter for ten minutes, they will rub out the spectacular scene of heavenly thunder and earth fire?
At first, I thought it was just Chinese personality: introverted, not fond of expression, and later found that this contradiction originally regardless of race, region, language, habits, rich and poor, undifferentiated distribution, of course, there are some gentle fathers and sensible sons, but the father's kindness and filial piety dream linkage are basically in other people's stories, at least those fathers and sons I have met over the years, such a harmonious and loving relationship is extremely rare.
Like my dad and my brother. What often happened when I was a child was that my father slapped his hand while my brother threw up his neck forward, and then I threw down the toy and ran over to hug my father's leg and cried, and the neighbors' uncles and aunts smelled and came out and pulled while persuading, don't beat the child who is so good
Now it is not much of a deal to review it, my brother is smart, playing small learning to respect the old and love the young and polite, the teacher praises relatives and friends, if you don't sharpen your mouth, it is completely a good teenager with moral, intellectual, physical and aesthetic development, but there is no "if" thing in this world.
My dad was the kind of guy who ate soft and not hard, and so coincidentally, so did my brother.
My dad said that my brother didn't need to reply to ten sentences, usually one sentence can reach the level of ignition. When he was very young, he was still just a pure "naughty" in the nature of boys, and when he grew up, they basically gave up communication when they reached adolescence. My brother and mother can also do a good job of years together, the topic is dense and the active scene is very warm, but also because my mother has a cheerful personality, not only with my brother, with my brother's classmates and friends, and the big brothers and sisters who sell vegetables and fish in the market can also quickly mingle together.
What about replacing the opposite side with Dad? The world suddenly came down, and the brain made up the GIF that the crow flew over ~ ~ quack ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
When my dad slapped his hand, he fell down without mercy, but his love actually quietly filled every minute of our day, but this love was too obscure, and he put it in his eyes and rubbed it in his heart, just refusing to say it with his mouth, and we couldn't read it at that time.
My mother said that when my brother was born, my father was very happy, the name did not know how to get up, and the gold was screaming.
My dad's childhood and adolescence were dark, it was a memory he didn't want to have at all, and with his own children, dad was full of thoughts about how hard he worked to make us live well. I remember having milk and eggs in my brother's breakfast, and then I added a piece of chocolate or beef jerky to my brother's breakfast, and I had ice cream time twice a week, and the children in the yard were envious. My dad was a big move, and on the weekends he would take the two of us around, to laoshan Park by the sea, to observe how tadpoles turned into little frogs, and to wonder how the hedgehog under the basket escaped from prison. We had a group photo taken on the trestle, which was the only photo of three people.
It may be that the father's growth process is too bitter, the family only brings him harm, the parents are not a warm existence for him, no one teaches him how to love the children, manage us to eat and drink, teach us the rules, let us understand the truth of being a person. So the output of my dad's "love" is instinctive straight, macho, simple and rough.
As another straight man, my brother, the response was equally simple and crude.
My brother inherited the most important character traits from his father: kind, stubborn, knocking out his teeth and swallowing himself into his stomach. At one point, I always felt that my brother was closer to me when I was a child, and when I got older, some things seemed to be able to be realized without saying anything.
Dad was very sick in the later period, and my brother forgave me to take care of the little girl who had not yet gone to school, so he took on most of the responsibility himself, and he opened the shop and spent half of the time running at both ends of the hospital at home. Think that in this case two men can live in peace? Think too much.... From time to time, mom and I had to give them cases.
There is no question of whether they understand things or not, whether they understand each other, the two people who copy and paste push each other farther and farther away because of their own stubbornness, in fact, the original intention of their outstretched hand is to get closer to each other.
Through this movie, I have talked about too many father-son topics outside the film, and I didn't expect it at all before I wrote it. The matter between my father and brother has never been carefully sorted out, and the truth I realized is that the relationship between the family is delicate, some aspects have no reason to talk about, and each other's concerns are constantly sorted out.
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About this movie.
The film uses the advancement of the case to string together the layers of contradictions between father and son, and when the contradictions appear, they show the collision of the father and son's respective views of life and the difference in legal cognition.
Hank is a well-known barrister who knows the terms of the law, and for him, the law is a weapon, not about good or evil, only about whether he uses the right move at the right time.
My father was a man of great latitude and longitude, not allowing anyone to have the slightest blasphemy against the law, winning or losing a lawsuit was not important, and justice was his lifelong pursuit, including the case in which he was deeply involved.
They could not persuade each other every time they quarreled, from defending their positions to a pure father and son.
Hank's greatest pain is that the judge's father only harshly punishes him, and Hank always seems to have all kinds of shortcomings in the father's standards, and in the face of his son's success, the more the father is not proud of him, but the more he wants to pull his wings. No matter how hard he tried, his father only had a blow, and he didn't care about his own feelings at all. Nor did his father understand him, and Hank's cynicism as an adult was actually a cover for inferiority.
In a room that was blown into a mess by the typhoon, Hank questioned why his father was so tolerant of irrelevant outsiders, only to face himself like a tyrant.
Why? Maybe because you're his favorite son, and he's the father you have to take responsibility for. It was Hank who didn't know his father was just worried that he would fly too high to control the increasingly inflated wings.
In court, through the excavation of the case, the father finally opened his heart, the case he mishandled was the pain of his life, and it was also one of the reasons why he became more and more severe with Hank, believing that a person has a price, Hank has a flamboyant personality, because an accident caused his brother to be injured and changed his brother's fate. Father couldn't let him try again.
The father finally confronted Hank and said "My good son", at that time, the defense lawyer with a strong suit and leather aura was just the teenage boy many years ago, and all the grievances and doubts that had been resolved in the gentleness of the father's voice were dissolved.
In the end, his father lost the lawsuit but won Hank, which also resolved the knot between the two for many years.
At the beginning of the film, Hank broke out a fight on the way to bring his father back from the police station, and got out of the car and left in the opposite lane, which is also a portrayal of the broken father-son relationship.
A few months later, Hank took his father out of prison, the two sat in a small boat, there was no cloud and the wind and waves were calm, when he was a child, he had Hank's best memories of this water, and at this moment he sat on his knees with his father, and the bottom of both eyes floated with the thickest tenderness.
It is said that "father and son have an overnight vendetta", but in fact, where is the word "vendetta"? Like two hedgehogs, clumsily approaching but not knowing how to put away their own thorns, they inexplicably injured each other.
At the end of the film, Hank arrives at his father's funeral in the town's courtroom, where the judge's chair where his father once sat looks empty, but there are things Hank within reach.