"In the midst of planning, decisive victory is thousands of miles away." - Sima Qian, "History of Gao Zu Benji"
Men with virtue is talent, women without talent is virtue, is the ancients buried in the bones of the deep-rooted concept, thousands of years of use, resulting in women have always been long hair, short knowledge. But in fact, there are also many large families who send their children to school, even their daughters.
Just like the three sisters of the Song family that we want to talk about today, Song Qingling, Song Meiling, and Song Xialing, they all received an excellent education, especially Song Xialing as the eldest daughter. Song Xialing has his own views and opinions from childhood to adulthood, and when he was only a few years old, he said that he wanted to stay in school and study well, and when he was 15 years old, he independently asked to study abroad and learn more knowledge.
However, it is precisely because of studying abroad that she has encountered walls everywhere that she has seen through the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and she is also becoming more and more a city servant. But it is undeniable that even if her fame is not as big as Song Qingling and Song Meiling, she is the happiest of the three sisters, and now looking back on her life is enviable.
After Song Xialing returned to China, her father asked her to follow Sun Yat-sen because she was proficient in the Three Chinese. It is said that companionship is the most affectionate confession, probably after working with Sun Yat-sen for too long, and secretly feelings in his heart. However, when she was about to confess her heart to Sun Yat-sen, her father interrupted her thoughts, saying that Sun Yat-sen was not the man she should choose, and also introduced a kong Xiangxi who was over forty years old, not handsome and widowed, and thus opened the road to happiness.
Don't look at Kong Xiangxi is not handsome, but his business acumen is very good, at that time he also used his clever brain to persuade the United States to set up a school in China, for the Chinese social environment at that time, this is a difficult thing to ascend to the sky! But he still put it on, which shows that his mind is indeed very clever, and the field he is involved in is also very wide, anyway, in Song Yaoru's mind, this is an excellent candidate who can be a son-in-law, so he introduced Song Xialing and Kong Xiangxi to know.
Song Xialing, who has always been quite assertive, is unlikely to accept this marriage in her father's opinion, but she did not expect that after the two people met, they immediately hit it off, and it was not long before the wedding was held, and since then they have lived a carefree life as a rich wife. I have to say that Song Xialing's vision is indeed very good, even if she has a crush on Sun Yat-sen, she still handed it over to Kong Xiangxi without saying a word, which is enough to prove her foresight, and Kong Xiangxi is also a lifelong favorite for her, and the two couples support each other and become a good story.
It can be seen that sometimes the fate of parents, the words of the matchmaker are not useless, just like the relationship between Song Xialing and Kong Xiangxi, if it is not because Song Yaoru is in it, then how can they achieve happiness and happiness? It seems that the Song family's abacus is really good!
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