Uncle Introduction:
The standard by which you like is definitely not simply frequent contact and easy to say I love you.
Do you know? The more easily something is said, the more it will not be cherished?
In this impetuous society, it is those who hide in the dark places of the heart that will not be easily expressed, and it is the real favorite.
01: Measure the criteria for liking
Recently, there is a very hot topic on the Internet, which is about a person who lies in your address book and has not contacted you for a long time, and suddenly says that he likes it, do you think it is true?
It is very ridiculous to think that if a person often does not contact you, suddenly says that you like, or suddenly disturbs you, there are no more than two results, one is to borrow money, and the other is to chat.
It's no different than I thought, most of the people in the comments section answered that way, but there was a very special answer that caught my attention. She said: It may be that a person who has liked you for a long time, but only dares to like it silently, finally bravely speaks his heart once again. Don't ask me why I know, because that's the way I am.
I realized the question when I suddenly saw this answer.
You see, I really don't know when it started, we used the second back to WeChat as a criterion for judging whether a person likes themselves or not.
But ignoring the essence of love, itself can not be measured by the frequency of chat, the length of reply and the speed of the response, which is a kind of judgment given to love by young people in this society, but it is not right.
People who like silence and active people do have advantages and disadvantages in their feelings, active people often take the initiative of love in their own hands, and passive people often miss in the entanglement will regret a lifetime, but it is undeniable that those who truly love you do not take the initiative to contact you, which in itself can not change the essence of their love for you.
Then some people will ask, if a girl does not often take the initiative to contact me, how should I judge whether she loves me or not?
In fact, all the likes can be followed, and we can find out from the details whether we really like them.
02: Do not take the initiative to disturb you, but know all your joys
A person who likes but does not actively contact you will know all your dynamics, she is like a shadow in the dark, guarding your side all the time.
I have a colleague who is such a girl, she can turn the circle of friends of people she secretly likes several times a day, and even Weibo is found by her.
She didn't want to let go of all the dynamics about him, happy or sad, she wanted to participate in his life in this way, although it was only hidden in the shadows and unknown. But in fact, in our daily behavior, we will find that many times we will betray ourselves in our own words and conversations.
Boys take the initiative to invite before their birthdays, let's have a meal together tomorrow, right?
The colleague actually knew that it was his birthday, but he still pretended not to know and asked why?
Boys also like to engage in mystery, nothing, just want to meet you.
In fact, the girl knows that this is the boy's birthday to invite herself, and she has long been optimistic about the birthday gift, and this gift is definitely what the boy likes, and this favorite thing is what the girl learned when she sent the circle of friends three months ago.
Scenes like this are happening all around us all the time. I know your birthday, but the chat dialog was deleted and edited, but it didn't send you the blessings I wanted to send. I know your preferences, and I've even bought it, but I don't have the courage to give it to you in person.
I don't dare to take the initiative to contact you, I only dare to secretly like you, I am even afraid that even the right to secretly like will be deprived, so I dare not contact you.
So if one day, there is such a strange person in your life, she seems to know all your dynamics and preferences, but never takes the initiative to contact you. You are obviously strange on the surface, but you feel so familiar to you.
If such a girl appears, please calm down and observe all this, observe her, and don't miss someone who deserves your love and loves you because of her inaudency and your carelessness.
03: It is rare to refuse your request
Do you have such friends of the opposite sex in your address book?
She never bothers you, but she never refuses your requests from time to time, and even if you are careless and take these for granted, she is still happy to help you, just because the person who made the request is you.
Among my fans was such a boy, and he had such a girl in his life and had been silently with him for several years.
After knowing that he had missed it, he was woken up by his friend.
Did you know she liked you?
How can I describe liking between her and me, we're iron buddies.
So why are you so special in her?
We're iron buddies!
Is it enough?
Enough, right?
You see, like will be unique, although I do not say, but as long as it is what you need, I will try to satisfy you.
Uncle Comments:
As far as feelings are concerned, the biggest difference between men and women is the degree of initiative.
What you think is a very common sentence in the mouth of a girl may be a word that has been tangled for an unknown number of nights, and only after repeated contact can I dare to say it.
If there is also a person in your life who does not bother you very often, but has an appeal performance, prove that she really has you in her heart!