1. So I think that age, economy, nationality, and even knowledge are not the conditions for choosing a mate, although these conditions are of course important to ordinary people, but I think the most important thing is each other's hearts and character, which is what we want to talk about the so-called "door to door".
2. With people who are too strong, I will not feel my presence. With people who are too weak, I will only feel my own presence. Only when I was equally strong and weak did I feel the presence of two people at the same time, and the infinite possibilities unfolded between the two points.
3. One should not expect too much from others or the outside world, and one person is not so important to another – at the end of the day, one is on one's own.
4. Haruki Murakami said: When you treat the seemingly boring little things of life force with a funny attitude, you will reap a small but certain happiness, so that you feel that life is very beautiful.
5. Instead of mediocre union, it is better to have personality and bumps, and divorce, and celibacy. Moreover, having personality is the premise of true love, and having personality has the ability to love and the value of being loved.
6. The most precious thing for people is to stand up their backbone. Success is to stand up constantly in this continuous failure, to stand up from the place where you have fallen, to stand up from the fall and the loss. Even in the low eaves, it is only the head that is lowered, and the will that is indomitable. Even if you are a master of karate, he can only make you fall down, and you can only rely on yourself to really stand up.
7. Many things, blessings and misfortunes are unknown. What you expect is not necessarily a good thing when it actually comes; what you want to escape from is not necessarily a bad thing after it really comes. Therefore, instead of thinking about the future in vain and needlessly worrying and rejoicing, we should calm our minds and embrace everything. It is always difficult to be perfect in the world, but please be perfect in this heart. That's it.
8. There is a question on Zhihu " What is it like to suddenly dislike a person?" One answer was, "He was covered in light." For a moment, it suddenly dimmed and became a speck of dust in the universe. I tried to recall how his whole body was light, but I couldn't think of anything. Later, I found out that it was the light in my eyes when I first saw him. ”
9. There are a lot of books and don't know which one to read, then start from the beginning of the hand; the words are always memorized, then don't seek shortcuts, start from the first one; travel can't make up your mind, then give up the strategy and start from booking a ticket. The best way to beat anxiety is to do the things that make you anxious. Starting out is always the most meaningful thing, just do it.
10. Mr. Yang Dai once wrote: Marriage does not require too great love, and it is enough for two people not to hate each other. There is no naturally suitable person in the world, but two people slowly change you a little for each other, he changes a little, you can day after day, year after year. There are two kinds of people in the world, the most worthy of our cherishing, not rich, but willing to give everything for you, very busy, but willing to be free for you.