Study is not hard, grow up to sell sweet potatoes, which is what parents often said when educating their children in the past. So, ask some parents, do you know when the most important stage of growth is for children? Some people may say that high school, the college entrance examination is a turning point in life, can change life; others will say that junior high school, admitted to a good key high school, admission to college is effortless; others will say that primary school, can lay a good foundation for learning, the future study can be easily a lot. However, according to relevant information, the most important growth period of children is actually kindergarten, that is, when they are 3 years old to 6 years old, because children at this stage are the key period of IQ formation.
As the saying goes, "three years old to see big, seven years old to see old", many people do not think so, think that this is the old people superstition before, do not know when in the folk old sayings, there is no scientific basis. But the famous American psychologist Bloom once did a follow-up study of thousands of children from birth to adulthood, and the results showed that a person's IQ depends on the time of childhood. If iq is divided into 100 parts, then a person can get 50% at the age of 4, 30% at the age of 4-8, and only 20% after the age of 8-17, which shows that the young childhood of a person is the most important stage of a person's growth.
The IQ of man is still like this, and the character of man is even more so. Some parents may have a voice, their children have cultivated a good personality when they are young, and when they grow up, they will do more with less, and they do not have to worry about their parents or worry less about their studies and work. On the contrary, some children have a poor personality when they are young, and they have not cultivated the ability to be independent, and when they grow up, their parents are also worried and tired, which also causes many parents to be reluctant to have a second child.
Of course, the child's personality not only depends on the child's IQ, but also depends on the parents' way of education, some parents will not even educate their children, and what about the ability to let children cultivate a good character and independence in early childhood? Recently, a new variety show was broadcast, although this is not a parent-child variety show, but it is better than a parent-child variety show. From this show, you can learn how to educate children, you can also see the way their families are educated from the way brothers and sisters get along, and you can also learn a lot of experience with children.
"My Little Tail 2" is a variety show of brother and sister growth observation companionship, and the growth witness officer observes the lives of brothers and sisters. The program takes the family emotional variety show of "brother-sister relationship" as the starting point, restores the diversified mode of getting along with brothers and sisters, and explores the mutual companionship and growth of brothers and sisters in getting along.
"My Little Tail" has been running for two seasons, and in the first season, Yi Nengjing, Zhang Liang, Wang Sutaki, An Qi, and Zhou Junwei have served as growth witnesses. The same is a variety show with a baby, because the parent-child variety show is restricted, so "My Little Tail" is a good alternative to the position of the parent-child variety show. Coupled with the fact that the audience response after the broadcast of the show was very good, it received good word of mouth and ratings, so the second season naturally came.
"My Little Tail 2" invited Wang Yaoqing, Xie Nan, Yuan Yongyi, Xue Mengjie, Zhou Junwei and other people to serve as growth witness officers, and the guests included Wang Ruihan's brothers and sisters in the first season, who will continue to participate in the second season, while the other guests were replaced by Chi Yiyi brothers and sisters, Deng Zeming Simi brothers and sisters, Nie Zening An an brothers and sisters, so the four groups of brother and sister guests have been assembled.
From the first issue, you can get to know these four brothers and sisters very well, the heart is 2 years and 2 months, and the elder brother Wang Ruihan.
An An February 4 months, brother Nie Zening.
Simi is 3 years old, and her brother Deng Zeming.
115 years old, older brother Chi Yi.
In terms of age, the girl is the oldest and is a veritable big sister. I thought she was the one who was the most carefree, but in fact, on the contrary, 5-year-old Yiyi had a lot of her own ideas and purposes, and when she was not satisfied with herself, she was prone to angry and crying. In the first episode, Yiyi wanted to drink Coke, mom and dad and brother did not give it at first, and immediately began to make trouble, and finally the mother compromised to give Yiyi a sip, Wang Yaoqing looked at the frown.
Then one by one wanted to play with the toys, the brother teased her not to give, but did not expect to say not to me one by one to make trouble, this dialogue made the witnesses look dumbfounded.
The youngest is Xin'er, who participated in the recording of the first season with her brother Wang Ruihan. Wang Ruihan performed poorly in the first season, taking care of his sister and even forgetting to bring milk powder, so Wang Ruihan was called "brother of waste firewood" by the audience. This time, Wang Ruihan released words to be an all-round brother and tear off the label of "waste wood brother".
From the first episode of the show, we can see that her heart has grown a lot, she will ask her brother to do things, like to play various games, and her personality is more lively. But since they met with other guests, Xin'er's socialization has become a problem, and watching cartoons has become Xin'er's only pleasure. His sister, who only wanted to be with her brother, made Wang Ruihan very helpless, and her heart still needed time to grow.
3-year-old simi is very autonomous, but also has her own little temper. In the first program, Simi woke up from sleep, brother Deng Zeming also thought that his sister would cry, but he did not expect that his sister was very sensible, did not cry at all, and even took the initiative to brush his teeth and wash his face, such a sensible little girl is too rare.
Then Simi went on a bike ride, and because of the speed of the car, she fell so hard that the bike overwhelmed Simi, and Simi began to cry. I thought Simi would make trouble for a long time, but I didn't expect my sister to let my brother say that the bike shouldn't be ridden too fast, and the small age of Simi has a very good personality, and Deng Zeming said happily that you are too good to coax.
But this does not mean that Simi does not have a temper, just after Deng Zeming turned off the TV, the sister's mood changed greatly, ordered her brother to turn on the TV, if not open, do not eat, this scene changes a little fast, people are caught off guard, I thought it would be very well-behaved Simi is also not too worry-free.
An An, who is 2 years and 4 months old, is the most surprising one, and at a young age, he can actually read books by himself, and he will clean up after reading them. After playing with the toys, An An will also clean up by himself, and I have to say that An An is very disciplined and very popular with the audience.
Not only that, but the most pleasing thing about An An is that eating is very relaxed. As we all know, children eating is a big problem, some parents will show their children TV, while watching and eating, such as Simi. Some parents will feed their children to eat, and some parents are basically chasing and feeding, children are playing while eating, and children eating is the most annoying time of the day for parents.
But Ann has no such problems, and in the latest episode, four siblings spend the night and shoot in a place similar to a mushroom house, which is a challenge for the brothers. After the brothers were busy for 6 hours, they finally ate dinner, and the brothers were tired at the dinner table, but they collectively discovered a knowledge point, then why An An was so obedient to eat.
Compared with An An, the other three sisters have more or less problems, cartoons are the top priority, and it is difficult to eat without cartoons, which makes the brothers very annoyed. And Nie Zening did not have such troubles, because An An was really well-behaved and sensible, eating was very relaxed, playing games was also a rule, and it was really someone else's child, which was enviable.
Seeing such a pleasant picture, the other brothers quickly asked Nie Zening for advice, "How did your family an ann train?" "Yes, how to train, the parents in front of the screen are also very envious, and they have sent bullet screens to ask: Why is this An An so well-behaved and sensible?" How is it trained?
Nie Zening's next remarks were very beneficial, and it was completely an educational template. First of all, Nie Zening said that An An never watched cartoons when he ate.
Secondly, if you make trouble because you don't watch cartoons, it is not to eat, and let her be hungry when you are hungry.
Finally, as long as she left the table and left the room where she was eating, there was no food left, and once or twice she was hungry, she understood for herself.
Hearing Nie Zening's words, the other three brothers looked confused, and Wang Ruihan even said that he was so cruel.
Although this way of education is very harsh on the surface, it is undoubtedly the most correct choice from the perspective of educating children. Children do not understand the rules, need adults to guide, children do not understand right and wrong, but also need adults to guide.
Today's life is much better than before, the previous people may not be able to eat, everyone can not eat enough, so there is no need for adults to guide, everyone rushes to eat. And now the children are spoiled, and the slightest carelessness is a cry. Nie Zening's words can be said to be the golden jade good words of the education industry, look at An An, she will take the initiative to help her mother to work for rice, eat will require wearing a bib, read books and play toys will clean up by herself, which is the result of good tutoring.
"My Little Tail 2" has been on the air for some time, the four little sisters in it have very different personalities, and An An, as a little girl who is only 2 years and 4 months old, her outstanding performance is amazing. Although she is 25 years old different from her brother Nie Zening, she does not rely too much on her brother, but instead takes the initiative to ask what her brother needs to do.
Of course, the three little girls of Xin'er, Yiyi, and Simi are also very good, and sometimes they are very sensible, but they all have their own small ideas, have their own small ideas, and everyone has their own crying side. The three brothers will have some small friction with them, which may be a problem with the way to take the baby. In contrast, Nie Zening was really much more relaxed, thanks to An An's well-behaved and sensible.