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"The Second Flower Blossoms": Those Thought-provoking Sentences (II)

author:Meet - far away

04

"Happiness, in the end, is a feeling of the heart."

There is a word called "phase from the heart", and the feelings of our state of mind are expressed through body language, and then there are changes in mood and sorrow.

Since happiness is a feeling in the heart, then we must learn to manage our inner world.

First, create a little time and space for yourself to be alone. During this time, cultivate self-cultivation, summarize the past, and think about life. Change the impetuousness of the past and enjoy life calmly.

In addition, be full of expectations for the future. We don't have the power of the prophets, and no one can predict what will happen in the next second. When we are full of expectations and have unlimited expectations for a better future, we naturally have the motivation to struggle. It is logical that we enter a virtuous circle of happy development.

05

"Another manifestation of not knowing yourself is not knowing how to treat yourself properly."

Gold has no feet, no one is perfect. Impeccable life is few and far between.

We have to learn to accept ourselves. Be good at discovering your own shining points, face your shortcomings, get along with yourself in a peaceful way, not unscrupulous, and do not seek complete blame.

If one day, you suddenly find that you are willing to accept an imperfect self, then you have begun to understand yourself.

06

"Pinning happiness on outward seeking is like drinking salt water to quench your thirst, and the more you get, the less satisfied you are."

When our fingers keep brushing on the mobile app, video after video, the so-called pleasure follows. Maybe unconsciously it will be late at night, and in the long run, the body will be broken, and the pain will come.

Lao Tzu said in the Tao Te Ching, "Contentment is not humiliating, knowledge is not lost, and it can last a long time." "Everything must be done in moderation, just as the so-called handling of things has rules and regulations, and there is a degree of progress and retreat."

The same is true, including finding happiness, not to pursue too much, to face life with a positive and optimistic attitude, and to believe that happiness will not be absent.

Contented people are always happy, everything goes naturally, just right is the most comfortable.

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