Why do some people say that love is a game of the brave, and some people are not suitable for love. Why, I didn't understand before, I thought that as long as the two men and women are in love, they can be together, so that the two people are very happy, and later, I learned that it is really necessary to have a firm heart in love.
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Although the love of adolescence is the most beautiful, but adolescence is not suitable for love, then you should focus on school, not love. Some people may want to refute that our love performance has not declined, but can you guarantee that this love that we talk about will not be the first to quit, and after the end of the relationship, you can still be as calm as water, the results are still the same, if you can, then I must not oppose you to fall in love, but it is only a love that holds a small hand. No one can cross the line, I have seen some little girls who did not hold back, stole the forbidden fruit, and gave birth to a child. She thought that the man would be responsible for herself, but the two did not have much courage to take on the responsibilities of parenting, and the child was eventually sent to a welfare home.
It's okay to want to fall in love, but you must not cross the line, because you don't have the ability to bear the birth of a life, which is unfair to the child. Talking about love must not be in a hurry, too young love is bitter.
Sentimental people are not suitable for love, because they are in love with their lives, they spend all their energy on love, and when it comes to loss, they will be particularly painful, and even have the idea of giving up the world. For them, love is the tree on which they depend, and once the tree falls and decays, they will cease to exist. It is said that sentimental people are the most affectionate, and it is called affectionate to talk about love with life, forgive me for disagreeing. You love him very much, and it is true that you can't live without him, but your life is not only him. You still have parents who gave birth to you, you still have relatives who shed the same blood, they haven't given you warmth, they are not worth your efforts! Love is only a stage in life, a state in life, and this state is sometimes love and cannot be stopped.
You say that you are yourself and do not need to be responsible for anyone, then you are indeed selfish, and you only have love in your eyes, no family affection and friendship. And it is your selfishness that makes the other party of love choose to leave. If you are such a selfish person, it is recommended that you do not fall in love, because of your self-righteous affection, others can not bear it, too heavy, who can not afford it.
When you are in love, don't be too early, wait for your heart to mature a little more, and then be firmer, then you will see that love will be clearer and will not be as vague as adolescence. Mature you also know how to save face for each other, mature you also know how to lose a relationship, more rational life, you can still love life as usual, love yourself, but also save the rights of lovers. Don't think that after losing love, you lose your soul. Many people began to be urged to marry in their 20s, so they were forced to marry and have children under the pressure of the family, and later found that such a life was so tiring that he could not afford it, so he chose to divorce not long ago. Therefore, when you are not sure whether you can give each other happiness, you must not get married easily.
A man is always like a child, immature, but at least before he knows how to take responsibility to commit and affirm to a girl. You can be immature, you can be like a child, but you must be able to make choices in the face of difficulties, and you must be able to protect your deep wife and children with open arms in the face of wind and rain. Instead of making promises and not daring to move forward, this kind of mentally immature man is also not suitable for love. Ma Bao men are also not suitable for love, because they listen to their parents in everything, and it is very undignified to fall in love with such a man, and in this kind of family, the status of women is similar to that of servants. Being a servant still has a salary, and being a girlfriend is just selfless dedication. This kind of man has a weak ability to take responsibility, and will only avoid when facing family pressure, so it is better not to fall in love than to do so.
If you can really be sure that the other party is the person you need to protect for a lifetime, you can take on the responsibility after the relationship, it proves that you are mature enough to take on any relationship and welcome the arrival of the other party. So love belongs to the brave, if you are the weak, then sorry, this game please click "auto quit".
Text/Little monk to a cup of water original, please do not copy