No matter how important people are, they disappoint you a lot and become less important. After being disappointed to a certain extent, a flower will bloom, and the name of the flower is called, it does not matter.
Huang Xiaoai is like this now, before she was in front of Mr. Li, her behavior was cautious, looking forward and backward, afraid that if she was not careful, she would upset Mr. Li, since Qian Xiaomei threw a plate at Li's house, Xiao Ai was right and strong when she faced Mr. Li again, and she argued according to reason.
"Since you don't care about me, why should I care about you?" This is Huang Xiaoai's psychology.
In her own home, in front of her mother, Xiao Ai was scolded by Xiao Mei to the point of bloodshed and embarrassment, even if she was scolded, even her mother with an age was scolded, Xiao Ai's dignity was swept away, she was really angry this time.
She hopes that her husband Mr. Li can handle this matter fairly, she is not a person who stirs up trouble, she only needs Xiaomei to apologize, she hopes that such things will have an end.
But Mr. Li turned over and over a sentence: Xiaomei is such a person of character, she cannot apologize.
For this explanation given by Mr. Li, Xiao Ai did not buy it, she believed that Mr. Li had been divorced for many years, and the reason why Xiaomei was able to come to the house unscrupulously and drive straight in, in the final analysis, was Mr. Li's inaction, and it was his accommodation that connived at Xiaomei's arrogance.
Xiao Ai figured it out, since so many years of forbearance and retreat could not be exchanged for harmony and tranquility, why not defend his dignity? Otherwise when is such a day the head?
Feelings are like this, for a long time without a response, it will be stopped, regardless of the loss of the payment of few people can do.
During the meal, Mr. Li said that he would go out together in a few days and buy some seasonal clothes for the children, and Xiao Ai said generously: Yingying's I have finished buying, Xiao Ai said this calmly and easily, since you are familiar with my feelings, why should I be considerate to you?
On the weekend, Xiao Ai took Yingying out to play, ignoring Yao Yao, she just wanted Mr. Li to see the consequences of Xiao Mei's provocation and big trouble, she didn't care about Yao Yao, she told Mr. Li with her actions that her patience was limited.
Xiao Ai is not an evil person, she just wants a personality equality.
Although I don't agree with Xiao Ai's lifestyle, this time, I support her to resist, little age, why bother to live such a rebellious and tolerant day, can't leave the big family? Highly educated, not bad ability, why worry about not having a job? Where not to take a sip of comfort tea? Why bother like an angry little daughter-in-law, looking up to people's sniffles, only promises, cautious and cautious?
The biggest confidence of women is not patience is not beauty, but independence.
After Xiaomei made a fuss, Xiao Ai's side was angry and intolerable, and Mr. Li's side thought that Xiao Ai was fussy and overreacting.
The reason for this state is nothing more than the following:
First, Mr. Li was not at the scene at the time, and the person who was scolded was not him, so he did not feel empathy and did not understand Xiao Ai's humiliation;
The second is that Mr. Li deliberately does not act, he is a businessman, everything must weigh the pros and cons, Xiaomei is his business partner, his business has Xiaomei family financing, today's business is difficult to do, if Xiaomei family withdraws, affecting the business How to do?
Therefore, he would rather wronged Xiao Ai and persuaded Xiao Ai to give in, nor did he dare to offend Xiao Mei, the reason why he dared to ask Xiao Ai was because everything xiao Ai was given by him, and he should surrender to him, and he was sure that Xiao Ai was not independent.
He first tried not to affect the growth of the child in his belly as an excuse to persuade Xiao Ai to let go of this matter, she did not eat this set, and then, he put on a top hat for her, saying that she was the hostess of the family and should share everything with him, including Yao Yao's education, she did not eat this set; finally, he hinted to Xiao Ai in a playful tone that if you insist on going your own way and be careful of being divorced, she still does not eat this set.
This weak little girl rose up this time, whether it was moving with affection, knowing reason, or knocking on the side, Enwei and giving, she was not unforgiving, and she was arguing according to reason.
Mr. Li was sad, he couldn't sleep at night, smoking a cigar to find a way, was he really upset xiao Ai? Or are you worried that Yao Yao doesn't have a good environment to grow up? Or angry that your authority has been challenged?
Seeing that he could not put Xiao Ai unevenly, Mr. Li began to find foreign aid, and he invited his business friends to come to the house as lobbyists in an attempt to make Xiao Ai submit to his will.
In the face of the eldest brother's two questions, Xiao Ai said what he said in his heart: Our family's affairs are not just to persuade me, I can turn this page here, and others will not accept it.
Xiao Ai's words mean that I can change, but if Qian Xiaomei does not change, the contradiction in the family is to cure the symptoms rather than the root cause, and the implication is that you have persuaded the wrong person.
The eldest brother asked Mr. Li if he could talk to Xiaomei, and Mr. Li vaguely said how many times he had talked about it, and said that it was good, and it would still be the same in the future. This means that because I can't change her, I didn't talk to her this time.
The eldest brother then threw the topic to Yao Yao: Your mother has a mistake, you have to point it out!
Instead of admitting that his mother was wrong, this child said that Aunt Huang's mother wanted to live in Junjun's room, and I was not polite to him. It means that my mother is not unreasonable, but Aunt Huang's mother and daughter are at fault first.
The eldest brother told Yao Yao that your parents are divorced, your mother is an outsider in this family, and the affairs of the family should be solved by your father and Aunt Huang, and your mother has broken the law by throwing things.
These words should have been spoken by Mr. Li to Yao Yao after the incident, at least to make the child realize the mistake and not be full of hostility to Xiao Ai's mother and daughter, but he blindly and thin mud, causing Yao Yao to still think that his mother has done the right thing.
Mr. Li always said that the child is small, can not bear the child to be hurt, he did not think, this cold, depressed family atmosphere is the biggest harm to the child, rather than hiding, it is better to face the gong, the opposite drum to the child to explain thoroughly, more conducive to the child's concept of right and wrong and character formation.
Mr. Li does not want the adult's grudge to affect the child, and he does not know that the child has been deeply affected by it now, because of Xiaomei's provocation and dissension, the child now hates Xiao Ai to the bone, and Xiao Ai turns a blind eye to Yao Yao after being repeatedly embarrassed by Xiao Mei and Mr. Li's disregard.
In this family, the most pitiful is Yaoyao, who pays for all the actions of his parents.
The sister-in-law asked Xiao Ai, what are you going to let them do?
Xiao Ai said not to let Xiaomei always target this side, and asked her to apologize for the smashing of the plate.
After hearing this, Mr. Li eagerly interjected that Xiaomei's temper was fixed and it was impossible to apologize, and in the face of Xiao Ai's insistence, he said a more incredible sentence: Is it so important to apologize?
Xiao Ai burst into tears when she heard this.
Can hurt us is always the closest person, Xiao Ai has endured for Mr. Li countless times, he is not only inconsiderate, but also take her tolerance as a habit, Xiao Ai feels sad, because his sincerity and dedication have never been treated well.
In the face of Mr. Li's angry eyes and disgusted expression, Xiao Ai once again reiterated that if Mr. Li blindly protected the two women, Ren Xiaomei acted recklessly, Ren Yaoyao was unreasonable, and in the future, hugh blamed her for her stepmother's inaction; in addition, she was not rare in the Li family's luxurious life, and after giving birth, she would go to work and be an independent person.
The rescuers mr. Li sought were ineffective, and his attempt to calm things down and fool through the barriers was not achieved.
Xiao Ai now sees through Mr. Li, who is obviously bullying soft and afraid of hard, exquisite and self-interested. "No desire is just", Little Ai didn't even care about The identity of Mrs. Li, there was nothing to be afraid of.
If a person cannot live happily and with dignity, then no amount of wealth, no matter how high the academic qualifications, are floating clouds and meaningless!
Summary: Women live, must have dignity, do not have to count too much on others, relying on themselves is the king, many times in life, not too many bad people around, but your position, bullying you do not need to pay any cost, when you are strong, the whole world will be happy with you!
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