The writer Cangyue once said such a sentence:
"Life is a weight-bearing run, and you need to constantly make choices at every fork in the road. And each choice will lead to a completely different path of destiny. ”
Indeed, every time we need to make a choice, the direction you choose determines how you go next.
Maybe when you walk through the path you chose, you will wonder if if you chose another path in the first place, whether the ending would be different.
That's why we always want to go back in time. I think that if I hadn't chosen this way, the result would have been different. But will the truth really be what you think?
Is it really a good result to go back in time and choose a different path? I think this should not be the case, because your choice at that time is actually the best choice you made after comprehensive consideration.
Even if life can be repeated and you choose another path, it is not necessarily better than what you choose now. Because at any time, no matter what choice you make, it will cost you. It's all something you need to experience.
Life is a process of continuous growth, and every choice you make, every experience, is part of our growth. The more we experience, the more we can understand.
There are no ifs in life, there are only consequences and consequences. Either way, the best option is now. After all, the things of the past have passed, and the things of the future have not yet happened. Only now is it happening, and it is the best choice.
It's like once reading a book called Natalie in a book called Natalie. In the beginning Natalie's dream was to become a pianist. But when faced with the final choice, Natalie did not choose her dream of becoming a pianist.
Instead, he chose to become a lawyer. So you say that in the future Natalie will not regret not choosing to become a pianist. I think regret may be there, but if you let her choose again, whether to become a pianist or a lawyer.
I think her choice was to become a lawyer, because it was because of this choice that she had a happy family, a stable income and industry recognition.
After all, we all know that there is no perfection in life, and it is impossible to want everything and not want to give up. So we need to make a choice. Since there is a choice, then there will be regrets. Because what makes you choose is the things that matter to you.
So, no matter how you choose in the future you will regret it. Because everything is two-sided. You will have some regrets about how you choose. And what we can do is to grasp the present and do the present things well.
Because the present moment is what we can grasp and what we are experiencing. Remember, there are no ifs in life, only consequences and consequences. Your choice now is your best decision.
Don't always indulge in regrets about the past, it won't do anything to your life, if you feel that you weren't satisfied with your previous life, then from now on, you can re-plan. It's not too late to start now.
It's like if you feel that your writing is not good and your body is not good, then from the moment on, you can take action, start to work out, and start practicing. When you can stick with it and look at it a year later, you will find that your life has begun to change.
You've got what you want. It's like a report I've seen before about a grandmother who picked up a paintbrush and started painting in her seventies, and she drew very well, and was known as Grandma Moses in China. Therefore, starting from the moment, it is the best.
Oh, yes! The past has happened, and there is no way for us to change it. The future hasn't happened yet, and we don't know what the outcome will be. But what we can know is that from now on everything is still too late.
So, don't always indulge in regret, life is not if, it will not be better to start now, now is the best result. Cherish the moment and start now. It's still too late.
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