Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
Text | The wind stops at night
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"Those who can be together will not be separated; those who can break off the connection are not true love!"
I don't know how many people are deeply impressed by such a statement!
In the interaction between men and women, it is often easy to walk together to the twilight years of the two people, just because of their "self-feeling" "work", they have become the most familiar strangers!
The feelings between men and women are originally very pure and direct, but they are too complicated by warm and carefree men and women!
It's like in a relationship, someone feels that they must have reservations to reduce the chance of being hurt! Often after losing, only to regret why you did not at the best node, go all out!
If you really love someone, you can't really keep your love! After all, there is no overload approach, it is already the best sobriety!
Facing feelings, the prerequisite for effectively reducing the chance of being hurt is not your cautious and reserved effort. It's the freedom you can afford to carry when you love and let go when you know there is no result!
Whether you can be hurt in a relationship depends on your mindset: content when you have it, and end up accepting the result calmly!
As for the more people who give, the more they feel hurt, they are never hurt because they have paid too much, but because they have not received the expected response after going all out, and they are deeply swallowed up unwillingly.
Therefore, in the feelings, the taboo of men and women is nothing more than: in the face of people who are clearly moved, they have reservations about the payment of love.
When you face a person, a thing, and have reservations, you must not be able to truly cherish and grasp, then how long to have and have, then it can only depend on personal creation!
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In real life, the feelings between men and women are never just wind and snow, but also trivial. The quarrels and contradictions were probably hidden behind me for a second.
In the face of such a "bad" status quo, some people will feel: constantly arguing is tired, and people who can make me so tired must not be suitable for me! This relationship is not what I want!
Then, I feel very "rationally" separated and disconnected! Even the contact information has been completely deleted...
There are really many, many people like this! Moreover, when talking to people about the past, I still completely stand in my own point of view to speak conclusively, without the slightest sense of self-examination!
However, when you are alone, you are suffering from the torment of not being used to being alone in the window period! Even if some people seamlessly start a new relationship, they will inadvertently think of "ex".
What is true love? The two people who have suffered a lot after breaking off the connection must be true love!
In the relationship between men and women, there is a false form of love called "broken connection"!
It's not that I don't love anymore, but I feel that in that relationship, I didn't get attention, and my expectations were disappointed! So, in the way of disconnection, find a sense of balance for your heart!
With emotion, with anticipation, with preparation for the water... Disconnection, just quietly staged!
However, how many people are deliberately set up to stubbornly hurt the vitality of love? When I want to turn back, I no longer have the courage to make a second contact!
Truly loving a person from the bottom of your heart, identifying a person, once disconnected, you will not be able to bear the pain of suffering.
The real love of lucidity is the person who immediately takes the initiative to reunite after the impulse disconnection and feels the torment! Whether they can still be together or not, it is a sanity without regrets!
Therefore, from the psychological to the action to analyze, it is not difficult for us to find out: whether two people are true love, after disconnection, take the initiative to reunite once to know!
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Love is a two-way street! Truly equal love will redouble their cherishing and efforts to change their own edges and personalities after the second reunion, just to cater to the durability, health and harmony of the relationship!
It's just that the connection is broken, and there must always be one person to take the initiative!
And the person who takes the initiative will definitely be the one who knows how to cherish more!
After disconnection, people who can still take the initiative to find you must cherish it! If he didn't care too much about you, how could he turn around and run towards you so desperately?
After breaking the connection, the person who can still run to you must have thought of all the worst results, but he still decided not to regret it! The bad outcomes he can think of are nothing more than:
Rejected by you, he enthusiastically expressed his thoughts and compound wishes, and was responded by your cold "Forget it, I wish you happiness";
Endure your lukewarm, non-acceptance, non-rejection attitude, waiting in ambiguity;
Faced with the result of not having any response from you...
And ta ming knows that there will be such a bad possibility, or just for the slim "compound", pluck up enough courage to get closer to you again!
After breaking the connection, I thought of all the bad results, and the people who took the initiative to contact you at all costs, not humble, not without you, not without you, the world without you is gone! Rather, it's because:
Love you, care about you and don't want to leave yourself with regrets!
After disconnection, the person who takes the initiative to contact you again is the person who has let go of his body, let go of everything, and is not willing to let go of you when he is still deeply in love!
Breaking the connection is never a break from love, but a new beginning!
People who really love each other, going around and around will still be together!
If you also love deeply, you may wish to take the initiative, maybe a little closer you can eventually become a family, do not care about face, dignity, you just need to know that for the people you love deeply, in the end face and dignity are not valuable!
I only hope that all people who truly love each other can manage their emotions and cherish them in time when they can still seize the opportunity!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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