Wedding "overturning" note: a sense of boundaries, that little thing that you and I have to understand
In Shangqiu, Henan, there was such a wedding, which was thought to be a good day full of happiness and promises, but unexpectedly stole the limelight by a sudden episode and became a hot topic on the streets.
This is not only a matter of two families, it pokes at the sensitive nerve in our interpersonal communication, and also reflects how much personal actions stir up social harmony when modern concepts and old rules meet.
What about the good festivity? Why did the situation change abruptly?
On the big day, it should have been full of laughter and blessings, but as a result, I was stunned by the 28,800 "cash off gift" that the bride's good sister asked for. This amount makes people gasp when they hear it, and the festive atmosphere is frozen on the spot.
The groom also fought hard, wanted to say good things to slow down, and promised to make up for it later, but his girlfriend didn't enter, so he didn't give in. As a result, the faces of the two families became more and more unsightly, and in the end, they quarreled directly, and the scene became a mess. As for the bride, with the "help" of her best friend, she made a heartbreaking decision - the wedding was not over, and she withdrew with her best friend, leaving a group of stunned relatives and friends and a broken groom's heart.
Internet fryer, the national "criticism conference"
As soon as this matter went online, netizens almost unanimously accused their girlfriends of this wave of operations. The big guys all say that the wedding is a testimony of the love of the two people, and it is not right for outsiders to mix too much.
The bride later regretted it and wanted to make amends, but it felt like an afterthought. The "tragedy" of this wedding not only broke the hearts of the two families, but also became a living example, making the big guys wonder: where is the boundary between people and people? Respect and understanding, do we really understand?
Learn your lesson and don't let confusion make the headlines tomorrow
This thing is like a demon mirror, reflecting the confusion and struggle that we can't find in the pull of the old and new concepts. It reminds us to use our brains more when encountering problems, and don't follow our feelings.
Before making a decision, think about whether it will hurt anyone's heart and whether it will add to the blockage of society. Our society must also be a learning society, with more communication, more understanding, and less unnecessary misunderstandings and frictions.
For tomorrow, let's work together to draw a circle of harmony
From the regrets of this wedding, we really have to remember it for a long time, and work together to build a more civilized and reasonable social environment.
When we are festive, we have to pay more attention to human touch, respect everyone's choice, but also score clearly, what is our own business, what is other people's boundary. Each of us has a greater sense of responsibility, and the society is more tolerant, so that such sad things can happen less, interpersonal relationships can be healthier, and society will naturally run on the road of harmony.
All in all, the vignette of this wedding, although it makes people shake their heads and sigh, is also a ringing alarm bell. It makes us have to re-measure, the ruler of interpersonal communication, think about how to step on the balance between old rules and new ideas, and push the society to a more harmonious and sensible road.