Nian Tangyao returned from the Western Expedition, and the emperor led hundreds of officials to kneel to greet him, but he did not get off his horse, Yongzheng: kill
Many famous generals in history have been exchanged for the lives of thousands of soldiers behind them. In the same way, the prosperity of a generation of Ming emperors was also accumulated by the lives of many famous generals.
He was the hero who quelled the rebellion and was the first person on the northwest frontier of the Qing Dynasty. There was a rumor that:
The northwest did not know who the emperor was, but it was necessary to know him, he was the famous general of the Yongzheng period of the Qing Dynasty - Nian Qianyao.
Quelling the rebellion in the northwest, laying the foundation for Yongzheng to ascend the throne, and saving the crumbling Qing Dynasty many times, why was the indispensable Nian Qianyao killed by the emperor at his peak? What caused him to fall so quickly?
Three reasons made Nian Qianyao step by step on the road of giving death
1. Arrogance and arrogance
Speaking of Nian Qianyao's arrogance, there is a small story that when Nian Qianyao quelled the rebellion and returned to Beijing, the Yongzheng Emperor was overjoyed, and when he was happy, he led the minister of culture and military affairs out of the city to greet him. When Tang Yao came, all the ministers of culture and military affairs knelt down to pay their respects, and the emperor stood in front of him waiting for him. Logically, when you see the emperor coming, you should immediately get off your horse and walk all the way. As a result, Nian Tangyao was good, riding his horse far away until he was in front of the emperor, and saw the Minister of Culture and Military Affairs kneeling in front of him, and paused for 10 seconds, which was equivalent to telling everyone."
I am enjoying your prostrations
”。
I was most afraid that the air would suddenly be quiet, and those ten seconds were really extremely embarrassing. The ministers of culture and military affairs knelt, the emperor stood dry, and Nian Qianyao rode his horse in front of the emperor. Perhaps it was these ten seconds that Yongzheng planted the seed of killing in his heart.
You know, in a hierarchical feudal society, every etiquette between officials was strictly regulated. No matter how much nian tangyao's merits were, he was only the governor of Erpin. And what about manchu wenwu? There are many officials who are one product and two products. Isn't there a saying that says:
There are more red tops in the capital than wang badu in the Yongding River
。 Nian Qianyao forgot his identity and asked his superiors to bow down to you? Or even have the emperor stand and wait for you to come on horseback? Where is the Junchen Gangji?
Just like in a business, when a leader brings a senior to your office, you sit and talk to the leader? After looking at the leader in the chair for a long time, how embarrassing will this be? Nian Tang Yao's merit is great, and he is also entitled to be treated with courtesy. However, this is the emperor giving him face, so that all the ministers can see that he loves and cherishes talents, but Nian Qianyao does not know how to advance and retreat, kicking his nose in the face? Unable to see through this relationship, Nian Qianyao's situation was already not good, and he was still completely unaware of it.
2. Improper handling of peer relations
Still this story, Nian Qianyao immediately dismounted after looking at the emperor for 10 seconds, with a look of sincere trepidation, although this can also be regarded as making up for the dignity of the emperor, but he ignored other civil and military officials.
Under normal circumstances, nian Qianyao, after paying homage to the emperor, should have a sense of intention in the face of the ministers kneeling on the ground, such as polite words in the workplace:"
Nian He De He Can, dare to work hard to greet you
"Wait for all this, let the Minister of Culture and Military Affairs balance in his heart, even if it is hypocritical." But he didn't do this, he just nodded his head at once, and when he was finished, he followed the emperor.
This shows that Nian Qianyao's heart just looks down on this group of people and will not handle the relationship between colleagues. Although the emperor is the focus, the minister of culture and military affairs is the object of daily contact, and he is good, and he does not even greet him.
The leader came to you with a group of vice presidents, and shouldn't you have a manager greeting with the other vice presidents after explaining his work to the leader? What's more, these vice presidents are all older than you, and you are dissatisfied with them to meet you, and you still love to answer? This beam must have been knotted.
Whether it is the official field or the workplace, we will inevitably encounter such things, the more the leader is good to you, especially beyond the specifications for you, then the more you have to tremble and panic, step by step, because everywhere needs to be inseparable from the two words of rank. The credit was not enough to smooth out this rank, so Nian Qianyao did not know how to get along with his colleagues, and offended a large group of people.
Finally, when the emperor decided to dispose of Nian Qianyao, no one actually came out to help him speak, but instead turned over the old accounts one by one and fell into the well, which showed how important it was to handle the relationship between colleagues.
Three
The mentality is not correct, and the leader is not respected
Speaking of this, perhaps everyone will be very confused, Nian Qianyao dares not respect the emperor, looking for death, right? The leader mentioned here refers to Prince Yi Yunxiang. He was Yongzheng's nemesis, and he was the leader of Nian Qianyao when he was still fighting for the throne.
It is said that one day, Prince Yi invited Nian Qianyao to his home as a guest. Nian Qianyao arrived at the door, but he was not happy. It was because Prince Yi's door was magnificent and magnificent, and the guards were all in good spirits, Nian Qianyao was suddenly displeased. Feeling that he had been compared, he immediately left, and did not greet Prince Yi.
Just this simple thing, you can see how low the emotional intelligence of Nian Tangyao is. The first thing you see is that you are not satisfied, it is directly manifested on your face, and you do not analyze it from the overall situation. People invite Nian Tangyao to come, just to give you face, and you still have a lot of dissatisfaction.
Secondly, the jealousy is too strong, Prince Yi is the emperor's brother, a member of the imperial family, is it not normal to be a little grand? Nian Qianyao just put his position too high, thinking that if he put down the rebellion, he would be invincible in the world, except for the emperor, no one else could be more magnificent than himself, which led to an imbalance of mentality.
Finally, the most critical point is to leave without any notice. Normal people know that there is something to be notified temporarily, Nian Qianyao directly left, or in the face of his own leader to invite guests, which makes Prince Yi face where to put? On the spot, Prince Yi was furious, and finally became angry that the old disease recurred.
A person, no matter how great the merit, no matter how much achievement, the most important thing is to understand the human condition, put their own position correctly, in order to stand undefeated. The emperor can hold you up to the heavens, he can also stomp you on the soles of his feet, the workplace is the same, in the face of colleagues and leaders, correct their attitude, not humble, not arrogant, this is the best way to survive.