Life and life are never fair, and when you have something that others can't reach, you often lose something. Many people look glamorous and beautiful, but the heartache behind him is unknown.
Hu Yousong, formerly known as Hu Ruomei. RuoMei, her parents gave her this name probably in the hope that she can be as stoic as Plum Blossom and open her chest in the face of the wind and snow. The implication is good, however,
Hu Yousong, however, is a child whose father is not painful and whose mother does not love, and she married a 75-year-old white-haired old man at the age of 25, and did not remarry in her life after harvesting a huge fortune.
Tragic childhood
For Hu Yousong, her childhood was not as free as other children's, and although she had many new clothes that children longed for, she did not enjoy the joy of running freely in the fields, and did not resemble a petite rabbit in the arms of her parents.
At a young age, she followed her mother in and out of various places of red and greenery, and when her mother performed on stage, she carried a basket around the stage.
Hu Yousong's special childhood life stemmed from the special identity of her mother, her mother Hu Die, who was known at the time
''Movie Queen.''
He was one of the leading movie stars of the 1930s and 1940s during the Republic of China period.
Hu Yousong's mother has a high reputation, however, she does not know her father's situation, whenever she asks her mother about her father, her mother always perfunctorily replies to her: You just need to know that I am a mother.
At a young age, Hu Yousong traveled with his mother to major hotels and guesthouses, but he did not have a home of his own. When she was 6 years old, Hu Yousong's body was extremely itchy, and her mother took her to see the doctor and was diagnosed
eczema
According to Hu Yousong's situation, the doctor recommended that she be taken to the northern region to live for a period of time.
Due to physical reasons, Hu Di had to entrust her daughter to her friend Shen Wenzhi, who lived in the north, so,
Hu Yousong left his mother and adoptive mother Shen Wenzhi to live in the north
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In Hu Yousong's memory, her adoptive mother was very grumpy and very bad for her, often punching and kicking her, and even finding various reasons not to give Hu Yousong food.
The young Hu Yousong did not dare to say anything in the face of this hot-tempered adoptive mother, and she had to suffer all this tragic experience in silence.
Shen Wenzhi's bad things about Hu Yousong also reached Hu Die's ears, so she wanted to take her daughter back to her side, however,
Shen Wenzhi refused Hu Die's request
Coupled with the nature of Hu Die's work, he continued to leave his daughter by Shen Wenzhi's side.
In order to make her daughter live a little better, Hu Di gave Shen Wenzhi a large box of gold and silver jewelry in exchange for money to provide Hu Yousong with school and life, however, there are really people like Wenzhi in the world who are excessive.
It didn't take long for her to squander all the belongings sent by Hu Die, and Hu Yousong's life did not improve in any way.
Finally got rid of the magic grip and began to live alone
Hu Yousong, like her original name Ruomei, stood in a difficult environment like a plum blossom, and after Hu Yousong graduated from high school, she finally left her cruel adoptive mother to enter a medical specialty, and it was this path of medical study that laid the groundwork for her to meet her husband, Mr. Li Zongren.
In 1965,
The elderly Li Zongren and his wife returned to China
However, soon after, his wife died of breast cancer, which made Li Zongren extremely sad and unable to sleep. In order to let Li Zongren get out of his sorrow as soon as possible, some of his friends found many women for Li Zongren, all of whom were rejected by Li Zongren, and only Hu Yousong was caught.
Hu Yousong not only looks sweet, but also inherits the beauty of her mother Hu Die, at the same time, Hu Yousong is also a nurse in the hospital, if Li Zongren can marry Hu Yourong, he can take care of Li Zongren's life. But
Hu Yousong was young and beautiful, had he ever been married, and Li Zongren wondered how such a girl could look up to herself.
Accidentally meets a big man and marries him
At that time, Hu Yousong coincidentally recognized a friend, Mr. Zhang Chengren, and the two became acquainted after a period of small talk, and Hu Yousong entrusted Zhang Chengren to find a new job for himself.
Zhang Chengren immediately recommended her to be a personal nurse for a big person, and this big person was General Li Zongren.
In this way, Hu Yousong met Li Zongren as a personal nurse, and everyone thought that Hu Yousong would be surprised to see such a big figure as Li Zongren, however, her performance was exceptionally calm, although Hu Yousong knew that Li Zongren was a big person, but she had heard Li Zongren's story since she was a child, so she seemed particularly calm.
After this, Hu Yousong knew the main purpose of her visit, and Li Zongren also expressed his heart to Hu Yousong, although the words were spoken, but Li Zongren did not have much expectations, but unexpectedly, Hu Yousong actually agreed to marry him.
Many people think that the young Hu Yousong married Li Zongren for his family status and money, and Hu Yousong said that she did not have any ideas about Li Zongren's external things
The reason why she married Li Zongren was on the one hand because she longed for a home, and on the other hand, she deeply loved General Li Zongren.
After Hu Yousong and Li Zongren got married, Hu Yousong took on the responsibility of taking care of Li Zongren's life, and she worked hard at home without a word of complaint, and even Li Zongren's children felt ashamed of Hu Yousong. Of course, Hu Yousong's meticulous care also made Li Zongren feel particularly moved, and even quietly wiped his tears for Hu Yousong.
The husband died unexpectedly and never remarried for the rest of his life
In 1969, Li Zongren died in the hospital, and after the death of Mr. Li Zongren, he left Hu Yousong a huge amount of property, however, Hu Yousong did not take these properties for herself, she still relied on the meager salary she earned to survive. This confirmed that she had said earlier that marrying Li Zongren was not for his money.
After Li Zongren's death, Hu Yousong was still very young, and her future still had unlimited possibilities, however,
She did not choose to remarry, and she donated the property left by Li Zongren to the people in poor areas, leaving no trace of herself.
Many times, we are using our own way of thinking that we may look at other people's choices, in fact, there is no empathy in the world, everyone can not fully understand the minds of others, just like Hu Yousong,
We may not understand why the 25-year-old chose to marry Li Zongren, 75
It is also impossible to understand that Li Zongren did not remarry after her death, just as we cannot understand the feelings between them.